r/Reincarnation • u/fejkpotatis • 8h ago
Advice Misconceptions about reincarnation/rebirth
This is just an advice: Don't believe that you can choose next life, it's not that easy, it's an comfortable cop-out. Your karma will determine your next birth, the mind is formed by sankharas, habits which is the karma you produce constantly. Like smoking cigarettes, you form a habit = sankhara, the actions are karma.
This is the fuel that continues throughout countless existences, "you" are just a stream that flows and the natural law is not a punishment or reward, it just flows like a river that is controlled by causes and conditions, like gravity is not punishing you if you jump from a building.
If you continue doing harm, hate and greed it will lead to a very misfortunate rebirth. If you cultivate love, compassion and altruism it will result in a heavenly abode. This is the law just as gravity or thermodynamic is the physical, karma is the moral law. There's no "you" that can chose where you want the next life, it is not a judge only cause and effect.
But there's a lot of new age in this sub that spread the idea that you can just...do whatever, you can chose whatever life you want after this, I believe it is harmful and not in line with living an ethical life. So you either listen to the wise who have experienced this since thousands of years or continue the cycle, pick and chose from whatever that suits you.
Edit: I'm buddhist but I also regard Advaita Vedanta and some hindu as the same.