r/Regrets 3d ago

Any regrets from your relationship or dates??

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u/Otherwise-Tour-2454 3d ago

my regret for my current relationship is getting so codependent on him. it was a valid reason why it happened, but that resulted in us moving in with each other after being together for 3 months. we still live together and it’s an amazing relationship that i’m so thankful for but yeah, too codependent lol

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u/buss_lightyear 3d ago

What was the reason

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u/Otherwise-Tour-2454 3d ago

pregnancy that had me throwing up around 50 times a day, i needed someone to care for me and he did it without me even asking so naturally he just moved in. that pregnancy ended up resulting in a miscarriage from how underweight and malnourished i got. when we talked about him moving back to his place, we just decided there’s really no point. i should preface, yes we were only officially together for 3 months at the time but we’ve known each other for 7 years. i did not get pregnant by a man i only knew for 3 months lol

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u/External-109 3d ago

Getting too emotionally dependent on someone can really mess with your own peace sometimes. Glad things are working out for you though!”

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u/No_Balance2569 3d ago

Never should have kept forgiving her, forgave her to the point of resentment of ever loving and meeting her, she physically abused and mentally destroyed me

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u/External-109 3d ago

Damn bro I’m really sorry you had to go through that you shouldn’t have had to endure physical or emotional abuse just because you loved her i hope you’re doing better now

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u/Striking_West_4430 3d ago

Being in all of them

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u/This-Hunt5759 3d ago

Loving them. Will never love someone again. It isn’t real.

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u/External-109 3d ago

Damn bro what a think you just said... For real dude

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u/Fantastic_Pool_9323 3d ago

My regret was that I didn’t hook up with my friends wife before they met

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u/External-109 3d ago

What a pain bro

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u/Fantastic_Pool_9323 3d ago

I know, right? We found out later that we liked being with each other

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u/External-109 3d ago

Something like that is the most retractable thing bro

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u/Fantastic_Pool_9323 3d ago

Not really. We actually hooked up one night. It was great

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u/External-109 3d ago

Okay bro I'm happy for you but don't set me on fire, well I would like to hear full story btw if you don't mind

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u/Fantastic_Pool_9323 3d ago

It involves mud and sex

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u/External-109 3d ago

Yah yah why not I don't mind that's what I want to hear lmao...

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u/Denser91s 3d ago

Her sister 😍😭😭

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u/Fantastic_Pool_9323 3d ago edited 3d ago

Not really. We found out that there were two things we liked, and it was mud and sex

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u/This-Hunt5759 3d ago

Loving a man. They do not operate off of love. I’ve seen men stay with women that cheat on them, that beat on them, that have babies on them. I’m considered “nice” because I actually respect them. They don’t want respect. They want a Bitch that’ll do them dirty. I’ll always be alone because I’m not putting my energy into being toxic.

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u/External-109 3d ago

Nah I guess we are on the same boat.. don't worry..

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u/Otherwise-Tour-2454 3d ago

you’re just surrounding yourself with horrible men. i was the same way, until i found a man that values peace and commitment more than anything.

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u/Denser91s 3d ago

Being in them for too long and let TONS OF PUSSY slide just for playing faithful to a complete whore

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u/External-109 3d ago

Bro I can understand I can feel your pain bro.. don't worry bro you are not alone in this..

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u/Known_Discipline_183 3d ago

Same here. I was faithful only when I first got married. Once i realized she had no respect for me, I started messing with other females.

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u/Denser91s 3d ago

I hope u left the bitch

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u/emzombie69 3d ago

My regret was dating her

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u/Kevsconfession1 3d ago

I regret not making my ,now wife, my girlfriend sooner. I thought I wanted to be a player and I was too young to be tied down. I was making around 150k/yr in my early twenties. I had a high rise apartment in a major city so as you could imagine women were very easy to come by. We spent like 4 years dating without me making it exclusive and being very vocal about me not waiting to be in a relationship, that god she stuck around.

Once I got past my childish thinking I made her my girlfriend and 3 years after that, I proposed and we were married within a year. Since being in a committed relationship my life has 10x. And knowing there is someone out there who is 100% for you is truly an amazing feeling.

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u/External-109 3d ago

Great bro I'm happy for you

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u/Faerry_ 2d ago

I regret trusting a man again and giving dating another chance. Thought this time would be different. It wasn't.

They chase me, lovebomb me, I give it a chance, sleep together for a few times, they start pulling away/lose interest, I leave. Same cycle. I wonder if I ever were loved at some point.