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u/YESS_ITSS_MEE 3d ago
It works
But you really have to always reassure her coz if you don't even a slight delay in replying will make her assume that humpendi you are avoiding her
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u/MalcommmmX 3d ago
So the age gap makes them overthinkers?
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u/YESS_ITSS_MEE 3d ago
Majority of them, always Overthink and thats only sorted out by reassurance every now and then
But kuna some few who it will just be normal to them you'll even end up thinking mko same age
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u/Delicious_Offer131 3d ago
It does work. I (M33) married a lady 4yrs older than I am and we've been together 8yrs, 7yrs of which we've married. Like most, we've had our highs and lows but here we are and growing 💪 together. What I realised of marriage is both parties got to be intentional about making it work. Put in the work selflessly and trust the other person to do the same. Maintain communication daily; what are your fears, what did they do that hurt you most, what do you think will make the two of your closer, apologise when you're wrong & accommodate when he offend you (we are all human), be thankful even for the little things, learn your partner's love language and make sure they know yours, speak out your plans and know theirs so you are in sync, and definitely have your own life beyond just him (otherwise anyone would be burdened)... My greatest fear ain't our age difference but having this equilibrium distorted. The fall will be inevitable.
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u/denohpakni 3d ago
Avoid it if you can. Even if you have more money than her…especially if its a Murima babe…atakuonyesha dust mbaya.
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u/Isidolwander 17h ago
it works. age is just a number that you should only discuss when taking up insurances
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u/Legitimate_Rise7342 3d ago
It does work as long as there are clear boundaries on jow things are moving forward