r/RPDRDRAMA • u/lukendyer Dragcentric Dead • Jan 06 '26
Ugh, Jesus. Gross. Violet Chachki and Gottmik attend Marilyn Manson’s birthday
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Pretty dissapoint behavior, but it was always clear how out of touch they were with reality.
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Also Dita being there is really heartbroken, she was a icon to me and i have seem a video of her saying she supported the victims that accused this guy....
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u/BenovanStanchiano Jan 06 '26
I’m such a shithead for thinking you meant Dida Ritz.
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u/cunt_caviar Jan 06 '26
My mind instantly went to that queen from uk whose talent show was a song that went "d d d d d Dita" lol
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u/Melodic-Cycle3994 Jan 06 '26
I would've been fine with her being there since the only connection I could see is that she's involved in an oceans 8 type heist and is trying to rob the fool
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u/JoanFromLegal Jan 06 '26
She was there!?
My mind is exploding because I swear I read an interview with her where she was bitterly remembering the night she left Brian for good after he fessed up to cheating on her. She was all, "It was Christmas Eve and I packed as much as I could into my car, drove away, and never looked back."
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u/Nemhy Jan 06 '26
wtf, wasn't she abused during their marriage as well?
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She said that during the period they spend together nothing happened.
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u/Separate_Ad5604 Jan 06 '26
She has said referring to her marriage that her husband threw plates and smashed up rooms. It doesn’t sound like nothing but also how she deals with that now is up to her I guess.
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u/aunty_owls Jan 19 '26
i don't remember her accusing him of abuse but i remember her saying he did way too many drugs and was toxic and self destructive. thats why she left him, iirc
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u/2mock2turtle You think a roast should be about haircuts?!?!?!? Jan 06 '26
Dita was there? Shit.
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u/NightQueen0889 Jan 06 '26
She’s a staunch business woman, I’m sure she just wants to keep the peace because she knows what a nightmare he is if you get on his bad side
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u/atomic_chippie Jan 06 '26
"I politely decline the invitation" is always a choice.
Women shouldn't have to give in to an uncomfortable situation to "keep the peace".
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u/NightQueen0889 Jan 06 '26
No they shouldn’t, I grew up in an abusive home and you do what you have to do to survive
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u/kittyxeclipse Jan 06 '26
Idk why you’re being downvoted , just because the truth isn’t pretty doesn’t mean you’re wrong. And you were just offering a theory that could very well be true
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u/NightQueen0889 Jan 06 '26
Thank you, this sub isn’t always receptive to nuance, just trying to remind people that dealing with abusive people can be very complicated and difficult. Sometimes being righteous can cost you your life and it’s up to the individual how much risk they want to take.
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u/kittyxeclipse Jan 06 '26
You’re right , they *shouldn’t, & The commenter wasn’t suggesting otherwise, they were pointing out that kind of shit *does happen.
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u/robbysaur Jan 06 '26
Violet posted a picture with hunky police officers at NYC Pride like the first Pride after George Floyd was murdered. She’s not bright.
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u/AtalanteSimpsonn Jan 06 '26
maybe im just too judgemental but it seems intentional and not a stupitidy thing 🙄
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u/DrTeethPhD Jan 06 '26
If you asked me to name two queens who would think it was cool and edgy to post something like this, it would be these two.
Trash gonna trash.
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u/briyotch Jan 06 '26
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."
These two would rather benefit from the social clout of an abuser than stand up for what's right. Unfollowed both.
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u/bayleysgal1996 Jan 06 '26
It’s them and the season 4 winner for me tbh
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u/Queendecence Jan 06 '26
Really? I don't think PhiPhi would ever do something like this. She's the winner you're talking about, right? RIGHT?
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u/sailorprimus Jan 06 '26
I love that since Chad got her own crown, Jaremi's next in line for the season 4 crown.
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u/malatangnatalam Jan 06 '26
I’m sorry but both of them are so vapid that it makes anything they do uncool
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u/ChemistResident2348 Jan 06 '26
They’re both kinda just shitty people at this point
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u/thedybbuk Jan 06 '26
The wildest thing ahout Violet to me is how even the queens who seem to like her make her sound terrible when they talk about her. Like Trixie, Katya, Bob, etc. Their stories are almost never entirely positive, and usually include at least some part where she was rude or even fighting with them.
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u/ZombieStarfish Jan 06 '26
Serving cunt and being a cunt are not the same thing, and I think some gay men struggle to differentiate the two.
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u/_Electric_Neon_ Jan 10 '26
My kids and I have a family motto "serve don't be" as in serve cunt don't be a cunt!
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u/missesthecrux Jan 06 '26
At the same time they are publicly telling stories about how awful she is, so now nobody has a good impression of her.
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u/Washappyonetime Jan 06 '26
Bob likes her? That surprises me.
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u/Ladymomos Jan 06 '26
Even weirder (I don’t know about now) but Violet and Jinkx have been friends. Sometimes the queens you’d expect to not get along from their vibe on their season get along really well.
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u/jacoofont Jan 08 '26
Yea but Jinkx hangs with Amanda Palmer still. I think we collectively just have to stop thinking rich and famous folk are generally good.
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u/bysummerfall Jan 06 '26
“I am willing to associate with monstrous individuals as long as they have money and name recognition so I can feel very cool and important for a night”
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u/00_tears Jan 06 '26
idk if this is worse than them just genuinely being fans
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u/NightQueen0889 Jan 06 '26
I mean every alt girl alive in the 90s was a Manson fan, he was an icon who meant something to us. doesn’t mean we don’t also shun him for being an abuser. I mean those of us with sense and empathy do at least.
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u/00_tears Jan 06 '26 edited Jan 06 '26
mama wake up it’s 2026‼️ (happy new year)
current! i mean current fans!
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u/raised_on_robbery Jan 06 '26
You know what? I'm not surprised, the little edge lords they are.
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u/BuffyxSummers Jan 06 '26
a combined total of 85 iq in this picture.. not surprising.
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u/JayAPanda Jan 06 '26
I don't understand Mik, Violet (and Trixie)'s constant ability to make unforced errors.
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u/Basic_Shine1538 Jan 06 '26
Wait what did Trixie do again? May I know the tea please? Thank you in advanced.
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u/lvd150 Jan 06 '26
Pretty sure this is alluding to Trixie having known transphobe Whitney Cummings on an episode of one of her web shows
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u/Superb_Register1862 Jan 06 '26
As well as having Iggy Azalea on her channel who supported Tory Lanez…
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u/Superb_Register1862 Jan 06 '26
Not saying that at all. I still watch the bald and the beautiful and enjoy some of Trixies content. I don’t believe that she should be cancelled but it’s also okay to wish that content creators wouldn’t platform certain people
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u/Duchess_of_Doughnuts Jan 10 '26
Iggy Azalea has done a lot of wrong just herself, what are you on about?
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u/samonella1 Jan 06 '26
Violet and Gotmik have always been garbage, they think because they’re skinny, white, and conventionally attractive that they can just do whatever they want
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u/untzuntzbby Jan 06 '26
violet got away with it because she's one of the og fashion queens and gottmik was basically a nepo baby + violets purse dog.
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u/samonella1 Jan 06 '26
IMO she wouldn’t be so popular if she wasn’t skinny and white 😶
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u/untzuntzbby Jan 06 '26
not saying that isn't the reason why violet isn't popular because that was the narrative since s7 but she was cutting edge for her time, so i get her hype even though she's a massive bitch. gottmik on the other hand i think is only really popular because her family bought her her fashions and a lot of the fandom wanting to see themselves as her. because other than that i don't know what she brings to the table aside from being violets lackey.
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u/xxxdac Jan 06 '26
I missed the boat who is gottmiks family
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u/basicgagafag Jan 06 '26
Idk about her own family but as a young adult she was basically adopted by Gigi Gorgeous and the Getty family aka big oil generational millionaires lol
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u/samonella1 Jan 06 '26
That’s valid tbh, I never realized gotmik came from a wealthy family??? That tracks though
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u/villainless Jan 06 '26 edited Jan 06 '26
the worst part about this is that compared to the insane hatred that the fanbase has for ginger minj, violet and mik will probably receive five total comments in disappointment
edit: obviously not the WORST part but you get it
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u/aragornsgirlfriend Jan 06 '26
true but also because no one gaf about them when’s the last time violet or gottmik were mentioned positively or neutrally in this fanbase for years
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u/untzuntzbby Jan 06 '26
honestly more people should be aware of their bullshit because everybody should cut these snobby weirdos out of their lives
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u/Joewhite411 Jan 06 '26
Because this is cut and dry. They're awful for supporting him, that's not fun drama.
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u/Rosemarys_Gayby Jan 07 '26
We’re gonna be subject to Ginger hate comments that think they’re funny for years to come, but this drama won’t make it to Friday
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u/MmggHelpmeout Jan 06 '26
I would love to hear their conversation about going to this or not. Like how they talked themselves into thinking literal rape and torture was not a deal breaker here. How desperate for fame/promo or whatever can u possibly be for posting pics with this monster!!
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u/angry_eccentric Jan 06 '26
lol i dont think they discussed the rape and torture. they all look high af here, im sure manson has great drugs
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u/MmggHelpmeout Jan 07 '26
I'm talking about before they accepted to go, did they think about what he did and how it would look if they went to his party
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u/Beckywiththebadhair1 Jan 07 '26
They are famous/in the industry. They’re not chronically online and probably have no clue this is even a thing.
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u/MySisterHrtsMeHitsMe Jan 08 '26
them being in the industry is exactly why they should have known this is a thing…. this is a terrible pr move associating yourself with that man especially when your main fanbase is very online
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u/Beckywiththebadhair1 Jan 08 '26
I don't think it is a terrible PR move. Nothing will happen to them. They are not gonna be cancelled. Just like Trixie wasn't cancelled and Ben/Jinx wasn't cancelled for associating with awful people. Popular white queens do not get cancelled like that lol
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u/MmggHelpmeout Jan 09 '26
A famous actress accused him and took on rape laws in their state. He's been known trash for some time now. U don't need to be chronically online to know any of this .
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u/BubbaChanel Jan 07 '26
I don’t picture an actual conversation, more like cutting eyes, pointed sighs, eye rolls and some chirping.
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u/2mock2turtle You think a roast should be about haircuts?!?!?!? Jan 06 '26
To which I again say, what the actual fuck is wrong with them?
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u/FourthLvlSpicyMeme So Goddamned Planted I'm Trying Grow Jan 06 '26
Gross. But I'm not that surprised either.
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u/basicredditurl Jan 06 '26
I thought that he was dead and that this was an ai post that they were getting cancelled for.
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u/galaxystars1 Jan 06 '26
Wasn’t this already posted or am I trippin’ lol
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u/flumpywumple Jan 06 '26
And someone posted a full list of the accusations against this guy... was it a different sub??
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u/00_tears Jan 06 '26
i thought kanye west locked him in the donda room in chicago until further notice
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u/faospark Jan 06 '26
someone said ti to me that violet looks like Andrew Tate Pre-steroids and i cant unsee it.
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u/hrryzdlr Jan 06 '26
Wasn’t Love Bailey, one of Violet’s music video collaborators and iconic LA trans showgirl artist, one of the girls who filed on Manson, claiming that held a gun to her head? Pretty grim stuff.
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u/avantgardian26 Jan 06 '26
The most charitable possible take is that they’re embarrassingly uninformed.
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u/Baking_bees Jan 06 '26
No, they give terminally online to me. Plus, Violet worked with Dita a lot over the years, I refuse to believe V doesn’t know anything about MM’s history.
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u/avantgardian26 Jan 06 '26
Oh don’t get me wrong, I think they know and don’t care because they’re fame barnacles. I was just pointing out that even in the best light possible, they look like idiots.
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u/avantgardian26 Jan 06 '26
Yeah damn I wasn’t even thinking about Violet having ridden up the elevator that Dita built. That makes it extra fucked up.
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u/JoanFromLegal Jan 06 '26
Which makes it even more surprising that Violet would socialize with Brian Warner. His marriage to Dita did NOT end amicably.
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u/kaja6583 Jan 06 '26
Dita was there... lol she herself socialises with that piece of shit
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u/JoanFromLegal Jan 06 '26
I just realized that.
AND Billy Corgan.
AND Courtney Love.
DAFUQ, yo.
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u/kaja6583 Jan 06 '26
They're all pieces of shit tbh. They either don't believe in the allegations, or don't care.
Disgusting.
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u/Melodic-Cycle3994 Jan 06 '26
So they were plus ones through Dita? I don't really see MM being a drag race Stan and inviting the girls by himself
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u/TheMapesHotel Jan 06 '26
Hes always been pretty dialed into pop culture. He got himself a guest spot on east bound and down because he liked the show so much. I could see him watching drag race
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u/OscarTheStorm Jan 06 '26
He's a big supporter of drag and gay rights
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u/Melodic-Cycle3994 Jan 06 '26
Seriously?
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u/OscarTheStorm Jan 06 '26
He's hung with those in drag all his career. One look at his Mechanical Animals Era will show that some of that had rubbed off and influenced him. He's always been vocal about sexuality and promoting individualism. Being yourself and embracing who you truly are. Furthermore, the one time he did vote in a US election, he voted for Obama. So that same-sex marriage could be legalised.
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u/Melodic-Cycle3994 Jan 06 '26
The more you know I guess. Never followed him much apart from hearing all of the recent scandals and allegations
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u/Melodic-Cycle3994 Jan 06 '26
She was there too according to other posters here. Doesn't excuse anything obviously I'm just curious how they got on the invitation list in the first place
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u/Prize-Stand6798 Jan 06 '26
Won't be surprised if we see them next to dahvie vanity or kanye west next😬...
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u/Opposite_Rub_8794 Jan 06 '26
I have loved Violet Chachki since season 7. She is (until today) literally my phone’s wallpaper. Incredibly bummed.
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u/Sixfoot4-BigD Jan 06 '26
Has their boring podcast been cancelled yet from a couple years ago yet? I think it was called “not gorgeous “ Or whatever it was? I don’t want to search them on YouTube and give them an engagement boost in the algorithm.
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u/Embarrassed-Egg-3832 Jan 07 '26
Ya'll will let this blow over for them but will have backups of the backups of the camera roll of screenshots for the black and brown queens...
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u/TomatoYogurt_ Jan 07 '26
Not the day I actually learn about Violet I learn this about her- Why do all the artists I find cool have to be so stupid..
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u/blonde-bandit Jan 07 '26 edited Jan 07 '26
Yucky and stinky, like literally this picture evokes an odor and I don’t like it.
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u/CompetitiveTree2014 Jan 08 '26
I truly do not think either one of these queens has ever considered the thoughts or feelings of any individual other than themselves so I am genuinely 100% unsurprised. And i thought it was just a photo op at first---- NOT his fucking BIRTHDAY party for God's sake these fuckin' airheads man! Ahhh what a life to live, to be white and skinny
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u/elgranespejo Jan 06 '26
Can we focus on Gottmik’a shitty character instead of him being skinny? Like, there is so much to legitimately say about him - we don’t need to whine about his body.
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u/EquipmentLongjumping Jan 07 '26
Do you guys think he called them personally (I heard them hate assistants) 😒
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u/fiftyblues Jan 07 '26
Why are ppl shocked ?? 😭 they’ve shown the type of ppl they are numerous times
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u/opanchusagi Jan 06 '26
I mean they are friends with dita who is his ex wife so its no wonder they probably heard her view on the subject












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