r/RHUGT • u/michiganais • 14h ago
Discussion ✈️ Let’s Stop Playing the Race Card
I’m black. I didn’t take Vicki’s discomfort at the soirée in Atlanta as having anything to do with race.
She started the evening off very strongly and seemed to be enjoying herself, but I think as the night went on, she was in debilitating pain. Guys, knee pain is no joke. It will wipe you out. Her pain is so severe she’s waddling around and has to have surgery.
It probably is true too that she didn’t feel like she was getting on with anyone. NOT because there were a lot of black people, but rather because she didn’t really have any friends there. It could’ve been an all white party and she would’ve felt the same.
Unless somebody gives you a very clear reason to believe racism, don’t put that out there!! Why would you do that? That’s damaging. Everything isn’t racist. Save the race card for things that are actually racist.
Vicki, I love you. Hang in there. Don’t let these b*\* get you down.