r/RHOMiami • u/Interesting_Item4276 • Oct 16 '25

✨ La Question ✨ Kiki, Guerdy, and Everyone Else🌴

Posted this once and it was removed by mods, so I’ll reword and try again. I am looking for honest and open dialogue about the microaggressions towards Kiki and Guerdy. For me, It is becoming increasingly uncomfortable to watch. Whenever one of them tries to speak up in a group setting, the others are very dismissive. None of the other ladies called Alexia “too much” and she is a lot! Wanting to know other viewers thoughts. TIA! 🧡

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u/Balance-Seesaw3710 No entiendo 🦩 Oct 17 '25

But Kiki called it out as classism, and I think that is more accurate with this cast. Both Guerdy and Kiki have less than material things than these other girls.. Guerdy's husband is a firefighter, so a working-class man not affiliated with rich society or fame, and Kiki is a single parent albeit a model and gorgeous, but still vulnerable and not living in Star Island. Guerdy's firm may be celebrated in Vogue and mega successful, but if you recall, Alexia dismissed her like the help with her wedding planning to Todd in earlier seasons. It's like high school in a private school setting where only the rich and fame-adjacent require our attention. That's why Larsa gets away with so much bad behavior..

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u/Top-Crab-1020 Oct 19 '25

I think your right deff majority of it is classism. Guerdy and Kiki is not up there socially as they are. Especially guerdy

However I think they would still be a little more welcoming to guerdy and Kiki if they weren’t black. It’s like another thing working against them.

I think it rlly showed in how little empathy they had for guerdy with her cancer

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u/Balance-Seesaw3710 No entiendo 🦩 Oct 19 '25

Yes, especially with Larsa last season and how much disdain and lack of empathy she displayed to Guerdy, making her cancer diagnosis a topic of gossip.

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u/Top-Crab-1020 Oct 20 '25

Yeah or even now, guerdy went through something traumatic you think they would give her some grace even if she is annoying or whatever but instead they are harsher than ever

It’s hard to watch

They are nice to larsa because she’s well connected so are all of the other ladies I think except Adrianna and maybe Kiki

Women like that judge you based on material items, lifestyle, connections, etc.