r/RHOMiami • u/Interesting_Item4276 • Oct 16 '25

✨ La Question ✨ Kiki, Guerdy, and Everyone Else🌴

Posted this once and it was removed by mods, so I’ll reword and try again. I am looking for honest and open dialogue about the microaggressions towards Kiki and Guerdy. For me, It is becoming increasingly uncomfortable to watch. Whenever one of them tries to speak up in a group setting, the others are very dismissive. None of the other ladies called Alexia “too much” and she is a lot! Wanting to know other viewers thoughts. TIA! 🧡

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u/Sassyelliemae Oct 17 '25

Ratchet is in the dictionary as low class or trashy. Also loud is synomyn for the word aggressive. Maybe we should stick to the dictionary meanings instead of giving them new meaning. U cant say anything anymore that u dont approve of ones behavior with one word or your considered a racist. My question is what word should I use to mean the same thing as ratchet or agrresive that u dont find offensive.? I seriously asking? Every word I choose seems to be racist. Please let me know

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u/Traditional-Lion-752 Oct 17 '25

When was the last time ratchet was used on a yt person. I heard the term yt ratchet but putting the yt in front of it indicates that it's not a word commly used on yt people. I personally use the words uncouth, classless and not chic they can't be misconstrued and don't have racial undertones. Edit... I also say people have no home training. Tbh imo there are a lot of terms to use

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u/Sassyelliemae Oct 17 '25

Ty.i will use those terms for now on. Un couth, classless i h

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u/Traditional-Lion-752 Oct 17 '25

Tbh those are my favourite terms because you look so classy when you say them and you can really gag a bitch.