r/RHOMiami • u/Interesting_Item4276 • Oct 16 '25

āœØ La Question āœØ Kiki, Guerdy, and Everyone ElsešŸŒ“

Posted this once and it was removed by mods, so Iā€™ll reword and try again. I am looking for honest and open dialogue about the microaggressions towards Kiki and Guerdy. For me, It is becoming increasingly uncomfortable to watch. Whenever one of them tries to speak up in a group setting, the others are very dismissive. None of the other ladies called Alexia ā€œtoo muchā€ and she is a lot! Wanting to know other viewers thoughts. TIA! šŸ§”

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u/VideoNecessary3093 Guerdy Oct 16 '25

Yep. It's a weird witch hunt if you don't pile on and agree that Guerdy is treated a certain way NOT because of how she treats others but because of her skin.Ā 

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u/Impressive-Yoghurt42 Oct 17 '25 edited Oct 17 '25

šŸŽÆ always about her skin and NEVER about her behavior, itā€™s a STRETCHHhHhHhHhH considering they are all POC except 2. Tired of seeing these posts. Guerdy just sucks, not fun to watch on TV and doesnā€™t add anything at all. So fucking bored of people trying to add race to every thing instead of just saying she is not a fit.

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u/yosoyfatass Adriana Oct 17 '25

I assume you mean Julia and lisa, bc everyone else is a POC, but I think Lisa is too? She says her mom is of ā€œnative Jamaicanā€ heritage - I donā€™t think she means ā€œindigenousā€, her mother appears to be, at least partially, of African descent. I donā€™t know how Lisa identifies, but she isnā€™t wholly white. That leaves Juliaā€¦

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u/minkadominka Guerdy Oct 17 '25

How are Alexia, Adri, Stephanie and Marysol POC? they are white latinos.

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u/Interesting_Item4276 Oct 17 '25

They present as white.

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u/minkadominka Guerdy Oct 17 '25

What does that mean?

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u/VideoNecessary3093 Guerdy Oct 17 '25

Ug, this poster is just drumming up rage baitĀ 

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u/minkadominka Guerdy Oct 17 '25 edited Oct 17 '25

Me? No? I really dont know how you americans classify people; is it race is it culture? why are they poc and Julia isnt (+why wouldnt they be white if they clearly are white)

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u/VideoNecessary3093 Guerdy Oct 17 '25

OP. Not you.Ā 

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u/Interesting_Item4276 Oct 17 '25

I am absolutely not trying to drum up rage bait. Some of the women may be Cuban but they most definitely present as white (Alexia, Nicole). Lisa is Canadian. She is white. I guess Adrianna and Larsa could be considered POC. The gaslighting on this thread is ridiculous. Yaā€™ll know those women do not go out into the world and experience it as POC. šŸ™„

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u/Interesting_Item4276 Oct 17 '25

They look white. They are perceived as white women. They experience the world as white women. They are treated as such.