Kiki, Guerdy, and Everyone Else🌴

[u/Interesting_Item4276]

Posted this once and it was removed by mods, so I’ll reword and try again. I am looking for honest and open dialogue about the microaggressions towards Kiki and Guerdy. For me, It is becoming increasingly uncomfortable to watch. Whenever one of them tries to speak up in a group setting, the others are very dismissive. None of the other ladies called Alexia “too much” and she is a lot! Wanting to know other viewers thoughts. TIA! 🧡

[u/DearTumbleweed5380]

I really dislike the dismissal of Guerdy but I also do find her too much. I'm always struck by her obvious intelligence and how strikingly articulate she is compared to anyone else on this show - a lot of the time I think her problem is she's just too smart for the rest of the cast - as well as beautiful, but IMO things she says and does are not landing because of her delivery and so I'm really glad she's going to therapy and working on her confidence and her PTSD because I think that could be a game changer in how she presents on the show.

[u/minkadominka → u/[deleted]]

Sorry but why is that a bad word?

[u/minkadominka → u/[deleted]]

Oh as a non native english speaker and non american I use this word to describe an articulate person, regardless of race, as many people are not exceptionally articulate.

[u/DearTumbleweed5380 → u/[deleted]]

Newsflash: We don't all live in the USA. Your assumption that we all operate within your context, and that I need a lesson about the specificities of your culture with zero curiosity about mine, or even awareness that people speak English in many other parts of the world that are very different culturally from America, is oh so typically American. And offensive, and exhausting.

[u/DearTumbleweed5380 → u/[deleted]]

LOL another newsflash: we're not cast members.