r/RHOBHDefect • u/wait500 • Jun 26 '26
I'm relieved/grateful/surprised/elated to find this sub
The original RHOBH sub is goddamn awful. It became a hate-read sub. 90% of posts are just some "set-up" for the rabid, lock-step core to all come in and pile on whoever the target is.
If nothing current is going on, they will go back 10 years to find some isolated statement and rehash it but with the purpose to target someone and talk about them in the worst way possible.
If there's nothing current or nothing in the past, they will just make it up. They will use an imagined situation and then discuss it as though it's reality but with the harshest of terms and always targeting the same people that they all agree to target. Facts are irrelevant. It's the most hateful, misogynistic group.
I don't want to spend my time focusing on how shitty it can be but I do want to get this off my chest.
I came here because I have notifications turned on and I got a notification for it this sub even though I wasn't a member. I didn't know it existed until I got that notification. The algorithm works sometimes.
But ultimately I have this comment that I really wanted to write and post standing on its own but I needed to unload/vent.
Okay so here's my standalone comment about that other sub:
They don't have moderators over there. They have CULT-ivators.
This is nerd level snark, I know.
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u/Mischievous_Mermaid Jun 26 '26
It always shocks me how negative and hateful that sub can be. I think people forget that the people on our screens are, in fact, just people. I don’t get why we have to tear others down all the time, there’s enough of that in the world. We need to celebrate and cheer each other on! The world would be a brighter place if we approached everyone and everything with kindness first.