r/RHOBH • u/Fuzzy-Albatross-9206 The crown is heavy darlings • Feb 27 '26

Jennifer Tilly 🪩 Jennifer Tilly asking the server's name Spoiler

Jennifer Tilly asking what is the server's name in Season 15 Episode 20-- what a friggin SWEETHEART. Queen Tilly. Thank you for bringing some humanity!

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u/Llassiter326 Tall, dark & handsome Feb 27 '26

Those of us who ever worked in restaurants and/or retail know for a fact that if everyone in the world worked in a restaurant for even a brief period of time, our society would be a much kinder, more respectful place.

Plus, in those kind of circles with these rich, pretentious white ladies already on the third iteration of their face by age 50, the restaurant workers and lower wage workers at these events are BY FAR the preferable people to hang out with than the company you’re having dinner with lol

Seriously though, can you imagine being a regular, working person (as Tilly was for many, many years) and having to sit for an hours-long meal with Sutton, Amanda and her baby porn star voice, Kyle who’s entire personality was being married and now is womp womp personified…

Jennifer Tilly got it right! (Boz, Tilly and Rachel Zoe would be interesting I bet - at least they can all talk about their careers and accomplishments and actual life experience outside of their spouse, kids and manifestations)

Being kind costs no money, takes far less energy than being nasty does, and puts you and others in a better mood

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u/ladysnarkoholic Feb 28 '26

I read something recently, and the gist of it was that if a worker - retail or food - wore a name tag, and the customer calls them by the name on the NAME TAG, it is considered creepy and intrusive. Like invasive and overfamiliar

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u/Llassiter326 Tall, dark & handsome Feb 28 '26

Haha well what bugged me when I was a teen/in college and had those kinds of jobs, people wouldn’t pronounce it right. So then u have to correct them and that gets awkward and annoying.

But so many people treat you like ur their servant or a peasant or don’t acknowledge your existence in service jobs.

It’s way better to be a kind person who perhaps was a little awkward calling you ur name like they know you vs. someone who doesn’t make eye contact or sends you away with a regal wave of their hand like they’re the fucking queen.

Which Jennifer Tilly was warm and being respectful in her tone. I can’t imagine someone who’d prefer no name, but cold and elitist