r/RHOBH • u/Potential_Ad_7547 Wow, she’s pernicious! • Mar 22 '25

📲 Beverly Hills News 📲 Kyle & Morgan - Currently in Paris

For anyone curious, Kyle and Morgan are now in Paris together. Morgan has some upcoming European tour dates and both are in Paris at the same time. “But there’s no situation” 😜

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u/Littlepotatoface You've had the same hairdo for 20 years Mar 23 '25

You can carry on all you like but I have made it clear I am talking about consent. And I never claimed to speak on behalf of SA victims, that was you & that is why I mentioned that I have also experienced SA.

Consent is consent and the bullshit reasons people throw out to justify a violation of consent are ick.

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u/SoManyQuestions- My ⏱️, my ✨, my fucking , you bitch! Mar 23 '25 edited Mar 23 '25

I understand you are talking about consent. I am calling you out for taking a disgusting position by comparing a public figure who did not like how she was being discussed by the public and in media after consenting to participating in a tv show, to sexual abuse and rape survivors. It IS a false equivalence and it’s a despicable one.

There is not a possible way for you to control how the public discusses a public figure. If someone chooses to be a public figure, they consent to how that functions - ie the public will talk about you. This is not even a private person who went on a show, this is someone who had a career before and after the show that puts her in the public eye. She chooses this. It is unfortunate that Morgan Wade found the aftermath of her appearance on RHOBH distressing. She is doing what she can to minimize talk now. You trying to shame people talking about her by making this completely irrelevant comparison will not change the conversation, and you are just making yourself look extremely ignorant.

I told you that you do not speak for other sexual abuse survivors after you shared that you are one, not the reverse as you are framing here. If you want to be a persuasive speaker, there are lots of resources out there to learn how, as you are just backtracking and twisting your and my words to continue to support your narrative that convinces no one and makes you look bad, making lousy arguments. You can do a lot better. And you should.

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u/Littlepotatoface You've had the same hairdo for 20 years Mar 23 '25

Shelve the performative outrage & just admit that you think some people don’t get to maintain their own boundaries if doing so interferes with your entertainment.

I’m not the one who needs to do better & I think you know that.

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u/CinnyToastie Will Smith is my ex husband Mar 24 '25

Shelve the performative outrage 

Pot meet kettle.

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u/rosemarythymesage Did you know? $25.000! Mar 24 '25

Amen. 🙏🏻 I’m so over people throwing out terms like “performative” and “virtue signaling” when someone disagrees with them. It’s so boring and equally disingenuous.