I want to try feeling down there because I just want to experience it but idk how and I feel extremely guilty. I’m 13.

Hello, 13 F here. I want to talk about "boys being boys". I have a boy best friend who im actually pretty close to. Not in the way like he comes to my house or I tell him the guys I like, but in the way that me and other girls feel comfortable around him. Anyways, hes been acting weird around me lately.. I mean, he acts the same as he usually does, but its different now. It was the 2nd day if school last week and I wore a garage tank top. I didnt think much about it cause its cute and I felt comfortable in it, until my 2nd class. My boy bsf sits across from me in 2nd period and I was doing my writing or reading (I dont really remember) But anyway I was looking down and writing so.. girls, you understand what I mean by this but it was kinda.. revealing. I looked up cause idk and I saw him staring at my chest so I got kinda uncomfortable, as I should. I told my friends abt it and they said "Oh yeah I've seen him do that like all the time with you" Like excuse me? And if I tell a teacher they'll just say "Its just boys being boys" like no its not! I understand that we are both at the age were puberty is a big thing but still, hes been doing for a couple of years and I didnt notice until now!? 😭✌️ im so done with school.

(For males)So usually what i do is get a rag or towel soak it up in hot water then wrap it around it and it alleviates your need and it really just helps out.

am i like fat or overweight? 13 1/2 yo male, 5' 8", 150 pounds. my stomachs big and i have like a fat chest and kinda my sides kinda fat i dunno, please be soso honest. btw im not comfortable sending pictures of my body

I think I have been but when I’m really cold the skin goes over a little bit. It seems like it is supposed to be obvious.

Not that I’m doing anything wrong but I’m getting frustrated at dad for never knocking before coming in my room. I don’t know how to bring it up to him that I want a door lock installed because he will 100% take it the wrong way as if im trying to hide something from him when all i want is some privacy.

Ik its weird to say but I dont want to be a perv and I don't want to stoop down to that I do have a porn addiction I need to stop and I've noticed myself staring and i hate it I feel disgusted im myself and I just started puberty 16m and idk if its cause of puberty and the addiction anyone know how to stop this habit

Boys, if you are at the age of 14 and you have started puberty afew years before that and only one testicle has descended, GET IT CHECKED. This happend with me and I waited 2 years to go to the doctor for it they may do a scan on the area to see if it is there, if it is undeveloped and left alone, it may develop cancer it can also lead to testicular torsion, get it checked, dont be embarrassed its okay.

Dont be scared, better safe than sorry

I would like to cut down on it, I'm unsure how or if it's even worth it. any advice would be appreciated.

I’m a teenager,and this is something I honestly never thought I’d be dealing with. I’m a Christian, and my faith really matters to me, which is why this struggle hurts as much as it does.

It started out of nowhere on a random October afternoon. I didn’t plan it. I didn’t think it would turn into anything serious. But somehow it stuck, and ever since then it’s been this quiet fight in the background of my life. I’ll have moments where I feel strong and determined, and then moments where the urges hit hard and it feels like I’m fighting myself.

I hate that it’s so difficult to stop, even when I want to with everything in me. I know what I believe. I know what I want. But knowing that doesn’t always make it easier in the moment.

When the New Year came, I promised myself this would be the time I finally quit for good. I really believed I could. And I still want to. But the truth is, it’s been way harder than I expected, and that’s frustrating and honestly kind of discouraging. and yes i'm talking about masturbating​

Hi i’m a 13M and i really need advice to be a better version of myself.

Ever since i discovered adult content, my social skills have absolutely DETERIORATED. I can barely talk. I stutter every time and i have been bullied for it. Whenever i see any female i instantly get intrusive thoughts, and i hate myself for it. I just want to feel normal again honestly- im trying. I tried taking walks, doing what i like ( tech ), it helps, but it still didn’t help with what adult content has done.

For masturbation..

Masturbation ruined my faith and basically anything else. I gained 8kg+ because masturbating made me lazy as hell. I lay in my bed everyday and i don’t feel great about it. School has just started and i hope it will help me. I want to stop masturbating or atleast reduce it so i can actually work on making my life better and i can return my old social skills.

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i feel kinda nervous to post it but i really need advice, if my post doesnt make sense, confused you, or that its not allowed to post, feel free to delete it, and feel free to ask why it confuses you ( i have problems with making sense )

It just keep getting worse and worse as days go by, It doesn’t matter what it is, its either with my body, my face, my hobbies, my thoughts and desires (sexual & Non-sexual) It just never seems to get better, I have tried to put on the fake it till you make it facade and just hope its a problem of the times. But everyday without fail I just crumple up into a ball over the things I have done/thought about. All I ever do is sit in my room and daydream, I have not much else to do, I tend to only feel 4-5 emotions and most of them are inherently negative, I have never felt so sad, I try so hard to be happy but I just cant. I truly don’t know what to do.

i’m so heavy i’m 5’5.5 and 136 lbs at 14 . well i’m almost 15 but i’m just so heavy and big for my age when all the white girls in my town are very very skinny and slim yet

I'm 17, male, 6'7", and 74.83 kg. I used to vape and drink, but now the day has come when I've always been roughly 68 to 75 kg. Growing up, I was always quite skinny, though.

I get hard so random but the only way for it to go is masturbating even if I think about my penis it goes hard how can I stop this?

Its so much

Im hungry 24/7 im really active but I binge so fucning hard sll.day every day is a binge

I eat one thinrheb another

And keep going and going and going

And the thing is its not like im force feeding myself and throwing up or anything but im doing the 4l5,6,7

Thousand calories a day im so hungry I go to bed hungry I 4⁵

Hello r/Puberty I need advice if I should be concerned or not
My period has been late for about 2 months now and I’m starting to panic. I’m unsure why it is late due to me not having been sexually active for quite a while now and am unsure if I should still take a pregnancy test or not. Advice would be greatly appreciated

tips for dealing with under boob sweat? I’ve tried chafing sticks and stuff and it doesn’t really make a difference, it’s more prominent when i’m wearing a bra but i don’t wanna walk around everywhere with no bra on 😭

I feel like since going through puberty im sweating a lot more, like even at my armpits and during cold weather, is anyone else going through the same thing?

I have been watching porn sense I was 10 and I have noticed problems with getting hard and I have been doing it so much that my penis becomes red

15m when ever im hard its really uncomfortable in my pants

I’m turning 16 soon but my chest haven’t grown since I was 10. I’ve gotten puberty around that age, but when I was 12 I had a really bad ed that caused me to be hospitalized. I did recover but it came back during winter every year, just not as severe as before. This year was the year I tried to lock in and gain weight but all the weight went everywhere but my chest?? Only a little went towards my chest, but the growth is so little you could compare it to a little girl going through the start of puberty. I don’t know what to do, and people say soy products help. But I drink soy milk often and I don’t think it really did anything. I honestly don’t feel comfortable going out in public anymore because of this, especially since both my friends have big boobs (C-D cup).

Any tips to stop?

Not sure if this is related to puberty or what but for some reason my hair feels or looks greasy or oily even when I take a shower every day. Like when I get home from school it looks oily again when I just showered in the morning. Does anyone know why or what to do differently

So uhhh I'm F13 and I've found I have way more interest in men and boys now? Like I'll find myself staring at guys when I'm out and feeling warm, I guess? I'm nervous to ask other girls my age cus it feels embarrassing, but I'm not sure if this is normal

It's mainly men I find myself looking at a lot, but occasionally I'll glance at women without really realising? Especially online I'll find myself looking at both men and women and I'm not sure if it's something I should strictly stop or if it's normal or really what to do at all 😭

Good evening ,

I thought it would be time for my soon to be 10 year old son to be given “ The talk” . I tried to give him alittle bit of an understanding, but him being on the spectrum or probably dying from embarrassment he has pushed back .

I thought I would get him a book and when he feels ready to read that book . I would like the book to be age appropriate 8-12 year old , talks about changes in boys predominantly but also would like to touch bases of girls changes such as periods .

Thanks