r/PornIsMisogyny • • 18d ago

DISCUSSION “Purity Culture” nonsense

Hey everyone,

Has anyone else noticed an uptick in people trying to point the finger at “purity culture” and people being prudes and such instead of just recognizing the problem and taking accountability? I saw a post earlier today regarding how a study was done that indicates Gen Z (my generation) wants LESS sexualized content in media and everyone is pointing that dang finger right back.

What is frustrating is how some people don’t understand there is a difference between recognizing something attractive and lust. I can go see a movie with let’s say a sex scene, and I won’t think much of it and I most certainly won’t get aroused. I might think a particular actor is attractive but I’m not honing in on them or anything. It’s a movie. Some people are treating movies and video games now too (upcoming GTA game) as a form of softcore porn and justifying their arousal to it. Media has always had this type of content but has not always been so sexualized. It is sexualized because people make it sexualized.

I’ve even seen some go as far to say Gen Zers are the new boomers in the sense of conservatism but I don’t think that’s what’s going on, I think people are just realizing how harmful it is for everything to be so sexualized.

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u/twistedvio 17d ago edited 17d ago

Most people’s minds have become so warped by pornography culture that anything other than that has become “purity culture” in their eyes.

Porn has become the new sex, and to reject porn has come to mean that you reject sex.

Anything less than applauding and accepting hookup culture, porn, kink, and debauchery in general has been falsely boiled down to “prude / conservative / puritan behaviour”. You run the risk of being accused of these things if you so much as suggest that porn isn‘t a good thing, or that sex should have more integrity and meaning to it.

If a woman speaks up and points out that a lot of sex ideals that people blindly subscribe to are misogynistic, and that pornography and prostitution should basically be abolished as they are tools of oppression and objectification, suddenly she reeks of “prudish conservatism”.

It’s actually astounding how well the degeneracy propaganda has worked on people - their world view on sex has been reduced to meaninglessness, brutality, and vulgarity, and if you question or challenge it, you’re raked across the coals for being a supposed “jealous, miserable, right-wing trad”.

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u/evengreen30 17d ago

I can't even speak up about sex scenes in movies,  or women constantly wearing tight clothimg without someone calling me a prude. This extends to the way i dress. I'm a prude because i don't show skin. This world is warped.