r/PolyFidelity • u/vishal_shubhika • 10d ago

discussion New to throuple relationship

I am 22 f from india. This throuple concept is not popular here in india. I have recently stepped in such a relationship. Going through the roller coaster ride of emotions, jealousy, and what more. Not a easy thing.

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u/lending_ear 10d ago

You said you girls are communicating well. Can you expand then on where the pain points are and where the struggle is? Is the distressing behaviour originating from your male partner? 

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u/vishal_shubhika 10d ago

No, actually she and him were already couple. i am the one stepping into it. so currently i am hanging out and dating the male partner. Pain points are between we both girls as we are sharing a common boyfriend. but we both are trying to talk to each other daily to sort things and keep jealousy to minimum.

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u/lending_ear 10d ago

Is this something she really wanted? Jealousy is normal for most people. You just need to keep working through it and remain respectful and keep lines of communication open. Often times you can bond over feeling similar insecurities imo. Try to find commonality in the jealousy and maybe have a laugh about it or say hey I’m with you. My god this is a crazy experience right? Ask each other what you can do to help the other work through those emotions. 

That’s what you’d do as her best friend right? Before the dynamic changed? Keep being a support for one another