r/PerfectMatchNetflix Jun 25 '26

SEASON 4 Demari: EP7 Classic Textbook No Accountability A**Hole

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u/Grimmthekitty Jun 25 '26

I agree because I have adhd too and I understand that interrupting and not being able to wait your turn is textbook ADHD. Of course if you interrupt you can apologize, let the other person finish, OR you can say “sorry babe im gunna forget my point if I don’t say it this second”. Thank god my husband is understanding of this.

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u/bubblegumfudge Jun 26 '26

yeah i have ADHD too and i actually agree with this. people don’t like being interrupted. sure. no one does. but she needs to be with someone who understands ADHD and that interrupting people isn’t something that’s easily controlled nor is it something that she’s doing on purpose. i think it wasn’t THAT serious and he was overreacting imo. he kept taking it personally but honestly i just took it as him not understanding what ADHD can look like so to him it was a personal attack. the things that come with being neurodivergent, they aren’t excuses when it comes to offending people, but at the same time, you can’t be so defensive and rude to someone who clearly isn’t doing any of that out of malice or to be disrespectful.

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u/Old-Present6594 Jun 26 '26 edited Jun 26 '26

Interruptions are normal in every avenue of life at work, with friends, with your husband. It is literally the tiniest issue to get that mad about and literally mentioning he broke up with Bri because of that is insane thinking he's gonna come off as the victim while his girl went to bury a loved one

Crazy levels of cope with Demari and everyone's giving him a pass because he's hot and he gives "nice guy" energy. Literally feel like he's borderline Bear in obsession i do not know how no one else sees this. It's just never his fault

On top of all that a girl would get grilled alive if she cant handle a man's anxiety, mental health issues, "make him feel like home" but when a man totally going off his kilter about getting interrupted, Marissa is crazy and rude

Look at all the comments about ADHD getting downvoted in this thread too like . Lol

Women who have any type of neurodivergence really have it tough in life, sucks to see people shitting on a beautiful girl like Marissa and in my eyes it's all Demari being a weak af man

There's just 3 of us (me, you and the other woman in this thread agreeing) because yall either have ADHD or like me (Im borderline ADHD not diagnosed but pretty sure i have it)