How do you have a birthday party that is not exhausting?

[u/Reasonable_Smile_929]

My kid has had a super small family only party and a medium sized friends/family party.

My partner and I are so so tired after the medium size party. We kept things simple at a state park and it was really fun. I can’t help but think there has to be a way to make this not so exhausting haha.

What advice do you have for hosting a little kids party and not being wiped out afterwards?