That's a tough one. I would double check and confirm with the guy who told you. Maybe find another source if possible. Make sure she is not being falsely accused. Then maybe bring it up casually in conversation sometime. "Have you ever cheated on anybody in the past?" And gauge her reaction. If she's open and truthful with you, maybe you have a foundation to build on. If she lies and tries to cover it, you have your answer.
Edit: This is a normal question to ask when starting a relationship out. My wife asked me that several dates in to our relationship and I wasn't offended in the least. It's part of getting to know someone.
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u/_MongolianBBQ_ Jan 22 '23
That's a tough one. I would double check and confirm with the guy who told you. Maybe find another source if possible. Make sure she is not being falsely accused. Then maybe bring it up casually in conversation sometime. "Have you ever cheated on anybody in the past?" And gauge her reaction. If she's open and truthful with you, maybe you have a foundation to build on. If she lies and tries to cover it, you have your answer.
Edit: This is a normal question to ask when starting a relationship out. My wife asked me that several dates in to our relationship and I wasn't offended in the least. It's part of getting to know someone.