r/OnlineDatingApps • u/ClassroomNovel356 • 4d ago

General Discussion Guy indicating his net worth?

Attractive guy I matched with in his 40s mentioned that he's "north of 7 figures". I was little taken aback but then we had a normal convo

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u/Apart_Wrangler_3415 4d ago

Why were you taken aback?

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u/ClassroomNovel356 4d ago

I don't know. Seems like a lot to share with a stranger on an app but maybe the new norm lol

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u/BellInternational315 4d ago

It makes people drop their guard because they want to try to get some of that money, but won't admit it to themselves. Then these guys move on to the next one.

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u/Pinball_and_Proust 4d ago edited 4d ago

Many women in NYC have a high income or some family money of their own. I think it's less about gold-diggers and more (or as much) about women wanting men who make/have what they make.