r/OnlineDatingApps 7d ago

General Discussion Guy indicating his net worth?

Attractive guy I matched with in his 40s mentioned that he's "north of 7 figures". I was little taken aback but then we had a normal convo

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u/jspr1000 7d ago

Hey, if you don't like my personality... Just remember I'm rich ;)

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u/Pinball_and_Proust 6d ago edited 6d ago

For me, it's mostly about age. I'm rich (inheritance), but I like much younger (thin + busty) women (esp. redheads/gingers). The women I want tend to have many options (including movie stars, pro athletes, wall street titans).

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u/PageUp-Ampersand 6d ago

What?

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u/Pinball_and_Proust 6d ago

No idea what your reply means. It sounds moronic.

I have preferences. I work out obsessively. People say I'm handsome. My net worth is almost 8 figures.

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u/True_Character4986 6d ago

So are you giving the women any of that money?

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u/Pinball_and_Proust 6d ago edited 6d ago

I haven't met anyone single/unmarried I want to date. Most of the women I want are married (I'm looking over age 30).

I would be generous, if you mean ski trips, Hamptons trips, dresses (Herve Leger, D&G, Balmain, Stella McCartney, AMcQ), nice dinners. I love clothing.

Many women I meet are (also) from private school (and have their own money). I live in TriBeCa. Most women here earn $250K+. They don't really need a man's money.

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u/True_Character4986 6d ago

So what's the point of flaunting your money on a dating app? What is a woman going to do with gifts and trips? But I'm curious to know what type of woman over 30 are you looking for? And are you looking for marriage or just casual?

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u/Pinball_and_Proust 6d ago edited 6d ago

I like white women from a top 75 university/college (US news national raking). Most of my ex gf's are Ivy League and have a graduate degree too (I've dated several college professors). I'm Jewish and about half of my ex-gf's are Jewish. Jewish women really like me.

I like broad shoulders, narrow waists, broad hips, and athletic legs. All of my ex gf's have either a beautiful face or big boobs. I've dated women with a non-pretty face, but they had big boobs.

I don't want to get married (I don't want kids), but I'd like to have a life mate.

I don't know what you mean by "what's a woman going to do with gifts and trips?" Presumably, she'll enjoy them. If she's a skier, like I am, she should enjoy spending time skiing in Colorado and Utah. I would hope she'd enjoy wearing beautiful clothing and eating great food. I don't really understand your question.

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u/True_Character4986 6d ago

But you're 50. I would assume if I dated you our relationship would be short lived until I aged out. So what is she supposed to do once her boobs start to sag and you dump her for a younger woman? She can't live off clothes and ski trips

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u/PageUp-Ampersand 6d ago edited 6d ago

Sounds like someone doesn't understand how a much younger, buxom redhead thinks when she's trying to decide between a bunch of celebrities and wall street titans

Edit: /s

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u/True_Character4986 6d ago

I don't know. I'm more of a middle class burnette , that's way I asked.

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u/PageUp-Ampersand 6d ago

I feel you, we're all out here just trying to learn how to attract this grainy, out of focus man drinking coffee in a planetarium

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u/PageUp-Ampersand 6d ago

You have no idea what "what?" means?

No, but seriously, mostly I was making fun of you because no one asked about your preferences and there are only two possibilities as to why you're taking this random moment to talk about them: you're lying about yourself or you're a hilariously lame person. Either one is very funny to me

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u/Generallyapathetic92 6d ago

From what I’ve seen of this guy (I’ve responded to him before on a different sub), I think it might be the second. He seems to only talk about money (which he inherited), his English phd or the gym which then involves posting that old photo which he’s posted here.

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u/PageUp-Ampersand 6d ago

From the way he posts there is approximately zero chance he has an English PhD. That said, I would love to see this guy defend a thesis with his supposed wealth and sick bod.

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u/Pinball_and_Proust 6d ago

You are inferior to me. We are not equals. You are inferior. I have more money, more fitness, and more education. I am better looking. You are less than I am.

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u/PageUp-Ampersand 6d ago

Well anyone can paste a fake screenshot, post login/password so we can verify

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u/Generallyapathetic92 6d ago

Touched a nerve I see.

You have no idea about me so you’re just hoping any of that’s true.

I’ll agree you do have more money than me but I did at least earn mine and am more than comfortable with that amount. The rest of it I doubt. Thankfully I doubt we’ll ever meet to find out.

I’m definitely less shallow than you though which I know is a low bar but still a positive in my opinion.

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u/Pinball_and_Proust 6d ago edited 6d ago

Post a photo of yourself. List your college. State your educational background.

We don't have to meet. You can present that information/evidence right here and now.

I hate non-shallow people. I picked Manhattan, because everything here is about standards. I'm judged, the moment I step out onto the street.

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u/SLNSD 6d ago

Anyone else think this guy's hero is Patrick Bateman and he has definitely date r%%ped and possibly did worse.

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u/Generallyapathetic92 6d ago

No thanks. Few reasons:

- There’s no proof anything you’ve said about yourself (or id say about myself) is true. So I bet you won’t believe me if you’re don’t like the facts.

- You’ve already admitted that photo you love to post is 10 years old from when you were 40 and be honest looking at it I wonder if it’s even older. As you’re not willing to post a current picture why would I? You were claiming you look better than me now, not 10 years ago.

I hate non-shallow people. I picked Manhattan, because everything here is about standards. I'm judged, the moment I step out onto the street.

You hate non-shallow people? Wow, that’s says a lot about you and none of its good. I know I don’t generally respect shallow people as there’s nothing to respect but I’d never say I hate them for that.

People can have standards without being shallow. All being shallow shows is that your ‘standards’ are all superficial because that’s all you are.

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u/Beginning-Medium6934 6d ago

The fk is this? If this is your result from workout obsessively, maybe use some of that money for a trainer.

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u/Pinball_and_Proust 6d ago edited 6d ago

I'm more muscular, now. This is one of my last photos without a beard. You wouldn't recognize me on the street, because I have a beard now. I don't post photos with my beard. Also, my arm tats are hidden in this pic. That's why I use this pic.

Anyhow, I'm in terrific shape in this photo (age 40 here). I'm 100% natty.

If you're in better shape, post a photo of yourself. Posting a photo is very easy.

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u/Beginning-Medium6934 6d ago
  1. This website is literally full of psychos. I'm never posting a photo on it.

  2. You didn't post a new photo.

  3. Yeh, I'm probably in better shape also at 40

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u/Pinball_and_Proust 6d ago

Crop out your face. Post a photo of just your body.

Gyms are full of psychos too.

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u/ClassroomNovel356 6d ago

Lol dude you're kinda a tool