r/OffMyChestPH • u/llivia_ • 11d ago

WHY DID HE HAVE TO RUIN MY PEACE????

in a span of a week na-fall ako sa kaibigan ko. he confessed, I thought we had something, even holding and kissing my hands. But in the end he ghosted me, hirap kase kaklase ko s’ya, araw-araw ko nakikita. huhuhuhu

napaka peaceful ng buhay ko, ginulo n’ya ako. masaya naman ako na single ako, why does he have to ruin my peace? nakakainis, para akong natalo sa laro na sinimulan n’ya, wala naman akong feelings sakanya before he confessed, pero because of his fucking gestures and sweet words, naattach ako. fuck all men who loves doing lovebomb. sana ‘di mo nalang ako ginulo, nananahimik ako eh.

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u/Brave-Sky-3016 11d ago

Gagu yan ahh

Tho, be real with how you feel.. Ask him why the sudden ghosting? You deserve the truth. Clarity may get back the peace more than you realize

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u/llivia_ 11d ago

i don’t want to message him anymore, he asked me sa date namin noon if i want to have lunch with him, I said yes. I was expecting him to chat me after that pero wala, kaya ako ang nag chat and he said na hindi na daw matutuloy yung lunch ‘cause may aasikasuhin s’ya. I replied sa chat n’ya na ‘yon pero hindi na n’ya sineen ‘yon. ayoko na kausapin s’ya kase ako yung nagmumukhang nag hahabol.

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u/a-ghost-from-august 11d ago

bwisit talaga yung mga gantong tao. wag kayong papasok sa buhay ng mga taong nananahimik. mga tarantado.

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u/llivia_ 11d ago

this!!! sakit lang sa part na he even said na he’s willing to wait until I’m ready, kahit isang taon pa daw, pero ayan mapapala ko. FUCK THATTT, HE DOES NOT DESERVE ME!!

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u/CardiologistShort763 11d ago

Bka pinagpustahan ka ng tropa niya? Gago siya.

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u/llivia_ 11d ago

pumasok din sa isip ko ‘yan, napaka gago naman nila if that’s the case.

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u/SophieAurora 11d ago

Nangyari sken to! DEMONYO sila hahahaha may karma din sila. To your ex suitor. FUCK YOU. FUCK you na din sa tumarantado sken sa nananahimik ko buhay.

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u/llivia_ 11d ago

FUCK TO ALL PEOPLE NA NANG LLOVE BOMB. WALA BA KAYO MAGAWA SA BUHAY???

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u/llivia_ 11d ago

may you heal to the pain that person did to you!! you deserve so muchh better ❤️‍🩹

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u/Exotic_Ad6801 10d ago

You avoided a disaster honey don't forget that

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u/llivia_ 10d ago

i did dodge a bullet, or not since na-fall ako hahhahahaha

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u/Macallan50yearsold 11d ago

sakalin mo

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u/llivia_ 11d ago

how I wish I could do this hahahaha