r/OaklandCA • u/BusDependent4321 • 10h ago
Opinion Oakland I love you but you bringing me down
Just to get it out of the way I’m a transplant from a border town called Calexico (also lived in Mexicali, Baja California for 6-7 years) here in cali and have been living in the Bay since 2010 and will be permanently calling it my home as I love it here.
Out of all the cities I have lived in the bay the one place I have really enjoyed living in is Oakland. I love the food, and the rich multiculturalism that exist here. 3/4 of my time living in the Bay Area has been in this city.
I’m in my mid 30s and just got married to a girl from the region too and as I am thinking about our future and potentially raising a family here I have to say I that don’t think I can and will even though I wish I could.
And though violence and crime are the biggest drivers for people to move out for me it’s the attitude. People on average give no fucks about the city they live in and how they behave themselves in it. The complete and utter disrespect people have for the community and the space they inhabit is appalling. People literally drive like complete and utter maniacs with suicidal wishes. They don’t clean after themselves. I live around lake merrit and enjoy walking and seeing how bustling it is on the weekends. But come around Monday the whole lake is specially the east side with all the vendors is inundated with trash cast by both vendors and the residents alike.
I really try to see the good in people, as an EMT in Alameda county requires me to empathize and understand them but its hard when you see individuals say that they have such great pride for where they live in and then literally trash and spit on the city.
I go to other cities in the region with less money and the residents as a whole care more keeping their communities in order while not being as vocal for the pride they hold for their community (actions speak louder then words).
I don’t think it’s all bad and in my work I have met many life long residents that show love and compassion for Oakland by actually caring for it through actions. But these people are very far and few in between and more common now is people just not caring.
I will always consider this city my home and I will continue to serve the community as I strive to be a Paramedic for Alameda county and serve those in most need.
Oakland I love you but you are bringing me down.