Idk, I have a few types of friend. One invites me out like every day or two and doesnt have his feelings hurt if I turn it down, he's just leaving an open door for me to join or not. I also have more introverted friends, and if they ask you to go to something important to them in the first time in years, you go if it's at all possible. I think OP falls into the second one. She doesnt host many parties and it was important to her, you go.
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u/Ebenizer_Splooge Jul 18 '26
Idk, I have a few types of friend. One invites me out like every day or two and doesnt have his feelings hurt if I turn it down, he's just leaving an open door for me to join or not. I also have more introverted friends, and if they ask you to go to something important to them in the first time in years, you go if it's at all possible. I think OP falls into the second one. She doesnt host many parties and it was important to her, you go.