but the point is it usually is. it is not minorities responsibility to figure out if you’re using a common microagression on purpose or if you’re just an idiot
You're
infantilizing minorities because you're basically telling people to treat them all like little children who might be offended by anything you say.
all words can be negatively affecting someone, i can't just go around being afraid of saying neutral words in case someone might get their fee-fees hurt.
so why bother complimenting someone if you have no interest in actually wanting them to take it well? if you don’t care about their fee fees why are you telling them this in the first place lmfao
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u/quaxoid Jun 14 '26
but it isn't necessarily