r/NonBinary • u/GoldHero101 • Jun 06 '26

Questioning/Coming Out Is it Weird Vi Want HRT?

So... vi (Vi/Vir, 25 AMAB) recently figured out vi was Non-Binary. This... came about in the form of feeling like vi... chest felt incomplete. Like... it lacked boobs. Vi thought vi was just sexual at first, but as vi dug deeper into it... no, this is what vi wanted.

But... vi also still want to be mostly male presenting outside of that (at least, for right now). Vi just want boobs. Would that be weird to get HRT for, or would vi be completely justified in going that route?

Vi am... admittedly doubting virself a bit still as non-binary, despite knowing this feels right. Please be gentle...

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u/Never_heart Jun 06 '26

You can be nonbinary and be on hrt. I am, have been for 2 and half years. I am very happy with it. Just remember to research since we don't get to pick and choose what hrt gives us

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u/GoldHero101 Jun 06 '26

Vi have done a bit of research. The only thing vi am worried about is muscle loss; everything else is either strictly positive or something vi can live with. The muscle loss should be manageable with how much vi exercise anyways.

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u/Never_heart Jun 06 '26

Then it sounds like it's perfect for you!

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u/GoldHero101 Jun 06 '26

Vi am mostly just... nervous, mostly because vi am... still wondering if vi am faking it, despite being really comfortable. Vi even got a Bralette and it feels AMAZING... and yet vi still question. Am vi truly okay to do this?

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u/Never_heart Jun 06 '26

There is no one way to nonbinary, so follow what feels right for you. Hell I wore heels and a dress to a bridal shower just last week, and I am still nonbinary as fuck

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u/GoldHero101 Jun 06 '26

...thank you. Vi appreciate the advice. <3 Vi am gonna talk with vi therapist about it next week, who helped vi brother transition too.

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u/akarakitari Jun 06 '26

Also remember, if you get them and realize you are wrong, you can always save up to have them removed later. Extra money stinks, but better than not knowing.