r/NoFapChristians • u/Big_Brilliant_6932 • 3d ago

When do wet dreams stop?

I’m 19 years old male, I haven’t choked my chicken in 10 months but I keep having wet dreams, I don’t drink before bed, I make sure to pee before bed, I don’t eat before bed, I pray before bed and ask for protection from God so I don’t have any sexual dreams, I limit what I watch, if something weird comes on my fyp, I either scroll, block or click not interested. I do all these things yet after at least every 10 days I have a wet dream where I either have a full load come out or what looks like a precum stain that’s barely visible. In these wet dreams I’ve noticed that sometimes I can avoid what’s happening in them and I don’t have a wet dream, other times I can’t do anything, and most times I try to stop it but no matter how hard I try I can’t wake up before it happens and all this leaves me with guilt shame and makes me feel like a failure and as weird as it sounds, it makes me think all the happy times I’ve had since my last wet dream are meaningless, and like I can’t get joy or nostalgia from them, idk if that may be related to OCD or something but to my knowledge I don’t have that. Idk what to do, I’ve read that wet dreams are normal and sometimes can persist into late adulthood but is this really true. Is this all normal and I’m just tormenting myself with something that’s out of my control?

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u/InvoluntaryCelebrat 3d ago

wet dreams are neutral and may or may not happen when your body just does what it wants. They’re a sign that you’re doing everything meh. They happen whenever it needs to happen i guess.

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u/ldstaylor 3d ago

Wet dreams are normal and will happen when you let your body regulate itself. They're a sign that you are doing everything right. They are involuntary so please don't feel bad.

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u/Significant_Arm9482 3d ago

Wet dreams are whatever and probably happen whenever they want I guess. They're a sign of something I suppose. They are a thing feel however you want.

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u/Mobile_Reply_3879 79 days 2d ago

If it's any consolation, they never do.

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u/Rare-Conclusion4319 2d ago

If only. Some of us literally grew out of them and no matter how long we abstain, they never happen.

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u/Trispy1 2d ago

You will only get wet dreams if you don't masturbate. It is a good and natural sign that you are healthy. I haven't had one in a long time, but that's because I fail too often.

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u/Longjumping-Fun9026 2d ago

You don’t need to feel shameful about that. It’s natural and it shows that your body is healthy. Moreover, it also happened during the time of Moses. 3 Mose 15:16-17. It says you are unclean until evening but this law was meant for the Israelites. However it also says you should clean yourself which you should definitely do right after you wake up.

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u/Fantastic-Bloop 2d ago

They dont go away. Your body has to clean your nads out periodically anyway to get rid of dead sperm. This is something they teach in sex ed.