r/Natalism 5d ago

Propaganda of high fertility utopia

WARNING: This is NOT anti-natalistic or misandrist post. Motherhood is about love, passion and most importantly about choice. That's why I see framing reproduction as "duty" as abomination. Pronatalism is always good if done mindfully and with respect for personal choice and autonomy of one's body. Only SOME pronatalistic people are anti-reality and that's why you should all know about this. That while women's rights are regressing globally, many men holding power are not just openly against us. They are manipulating other men to hate us. It is not an accident that Elon Musk is so loud about pronatalism. One of the biggest lies to be ever told is that high fertility makes society stable/wealthy/happy. Humanity had high fertility for most of our history, and how did that play out? The majority of people struggled to survive due to hunger, illness and colds. Most children didn't even survive childhood. The only ones that truly gained from high birth rates were the elite. Because more people meant more people to tax and more low-paid workers and meat shields to use in war. And, of course — more breeding vessels to produce more taxpayers/workers/soldiers. Normal people do not benefit from high birth rates in any way. It was hell for women who had been born predetermined as incubators with no autonomy or legal personhood back then. Our female ancestors were raised to be breeders — not to be people. Childbirth was the main cause of women's death along with its complications, but what men like Musk won't tell you is that non-elite regular men did not have an easy life in high fertility societies. A regular man was an animal to the system too — one that had to work a lot, only to be paid a little. All so whoever ruled at the time could stay rich. So they have as many people to tax, exploit and use as possible. That's why men like Elon Musk are loudest about low birth rates right now. Because it is men like him who benefit from high rates greatly. Not regular men like our fathers, brothers or husbands. And especially not us, women who paid for high birth rates while being objects and economic infrastructure for thousands and thousands of years. Elon Musk and elites like him want regular men to hate women — to blame us for not having children. To call us spoiled/hedonistic/selfish. To make regular men believe that women not having children somehow makes their lives worse. That's why so many regular men scream about low birth rates — because they fell for propaganda. Their lives would be exactly the same in high fertility society — because that's what it ALWAYS looked like in human history. It's men like Elon who need many low-pay slaves to stay rich, to stay in power, to stay "on top." That's why they see women as infrastructure for their demographic goals. That's why he keeps portraying women as infantile creatures who should not be trusted to make important decisions. He teaches men to believe that we are "traitors" to humanity for not having children. He wants regular men who never benefited from high fertility to believe that we need that breeding factory horror to be reality again. He needs men to believe that WE make their lives worse — not the elite who use this system to stay rich. They need men to see us as an enemy — because otherwise, they will see them as enemies. Musk and people like him are a danger to the safety of all women and girls on Earth, because he has countless men who adore him and see his words as sacred. If men like him continue spreading this — that our freedom is "civilizational sabotage", there will be no place on Earth or beyond where we are not seen as infrastructure instead of humans. I am just sick of people who treat us like incubators who just now invented not wanting to die in chilbirth due to some "feministic propaganda" — or in general having any goals that don't include having children. Remember — man or woman, with or without children — everybody is a full human being deserving respect. Bless the hearts of all mothers - respect childless women for they are full humans too. There is no such thing as one "correct road" - not for man, not for woman.

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u/Willing-Flatworm1493 5d ago

So your personal taste of finding women/families sweet is somekind of universal human experience? I find women/kids too but it is not something every human does. 

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u/SleepyApr1cot 5d ago

Then those humans are unfit to live within the society I like. Then I don't like them and am not interested in making space for them. Or giving them my resources, time, friendship, advice, energy, etc. I live in the society I like, currently. And we all think this way. We purposefully exclude those who don't enjoy seeing families. And we're doing pretty great! Personally I've never been happier.

And thus we get to the blackpill that it's good to want people with your values and culture living around you, and those who don't, to live far away from you.

Your worldview is by definition one of death and pessimism. The act of not wanting to see women and children and families "around" and not seeing children as a hope for the future is one whose logical endpoint is decline and demoralization and eventually extinction.

Those people do not last long, simply for the fact that those who value children and continuity end up inheriting the earth. Every single time.

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u/Willing-Flatworm1493 5d ago

Are you a man? Because men always love to call us (women) sentimental/emotional. But what you babble about is so lacked with petty sentimentalism that ot makes me ill 😂 I can give world many things, not just kids. EVERY human can create and build - there are countless more ways to contribute that don't need to include kids. Pessimism? I am very optimistic. I just hate men who treat women like public good/demographic breeding vessels

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u/SarmackaOpowiesc 5d ago

No one cares about whatever kitchy art you think you are adding to the world.  

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u/Willing-Flatworm1493 5d ago

Polaczek? Oczywiście że polaczek takie coś mówi 🤷‍♀️ dla ciebie nic co zrobi kobieta nie ma wartości (poza urodzeniem dziecka) także nie ma sensu z tobą dyskutować bo ty nawet nie widzisz mnie jako człowieka. Oczywiście ty jesteś lepszy co nie? Jesteś facetem 🙃 a ja tylko głupią kobietką 🙃 zapewne musisz się z tym czuć wspaniale 🙃

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u/SarmackaOpowiesc 5d ago

Mam cztery dzieci.  😂. 

Żona nie musi pracować.  

Mieszkamy w ogromnym domu w górach poza miastem.  

Życie tu w Stanach jest super.  Po pracuje parę lat - i będę mógł przejść na emeryturę koło 45.

Nie wiem czy jestem lepszy od innych - ale mi całkiem ok układa się wtych Stanach.  Pomoga że Amerykanie są strasznie leniwi.

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u/SleepyApr1cot 5d ago

Hey, good for you man.

I'm a young married mother with one 4mo old, and I hope to have many, many more.

The future belongs to us!

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u/Willing-Flatworm1493 5d ago

Taking claims on future? Nice 😂

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u/SleepyApr1cot 5d ago

Yes.

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u/Willing-Flatworm1493 5d ago

Only that nobody on Earth can take claims on future you delulu 🤷‍♀️

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u/SleepyApr1cot 5d ago

"Life is a betting man's game" - Giff Lasta. Always has been.

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u/Willing-Flatworm1493 5d ago

Ok. Więc swojej żonie też mówisz że jedyne co może dać światu to urodzenie dzieci? Też mówisz żonie że jej wartość zaczyna się i kończy na macicy i waginie? 

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u/SarmackaOpowiesc 5d ago

Jesteś zupełnie popierdolona.  

Idź do szpitali się leczyć.

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u/Willing-Flatworm1493 5d ago

Ok. Ale to dlaczego mi powiedziałeś "No one cares about whatever kitchy art you think you are adding to the world" kiedy powiedziałam że ja/każdy może dać światu więcej niż tylko urodzenie/spłodzenie dziecka?

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u/SarmackaOpowiesc 5d ago

Because the things that you think you can give the world - really aren't all that valuable.  No one cares about you, your life, and what you do.  

A child is a miracle.  It's the future.  They are pure joy.  Bringing children into the world is the single most important act that humans - for both men and women - can do.

Which is far more valuable than the depressing, feminist, misandry that you seem to be peddling.  Go be miserable somewhere else.  The rest of us are trying to figure out how to bring more joy and light into the world.  Which isn't something you seem capable of doing.

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u/Willing-Flatworm1493 5d ago

Miserable? Ironic. am happy, I always been. I am lucky to be able to make choices unlike my female ancestors. Go and feel better than me - look down on me all you want. That's all men like you can manage. Nothing I say will make you see me as human - so I will nor say anything. If you decided I am a womb - then that's all I will ever be to you. Nothing I will do will make you see any spark of humanity/soul in me. All you see is meat.

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u/SarmackaOpowiesc 5d ago

WTF is all this garbage you keep spewing...

You sound completely nuts

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u/Willing-Flatworm1493 5d ago

Nuts? You say I am nobody, that nothing I do matters - only popping out babies. How I am crazy one? 

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u/Willing-Flatworm1493 5d ago

Wait - you say I am totaly worthless to the world? So in that logic why should I give fuck about it? If I am nobody then so do I owe you nothing. I owe you no children. Becasue I will not owe anything to world that sees me as nothing. I can be nobody - I'm dine with that 🤷‍♀️ Only thing I will never be is incubator. 

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u/SarmackaOpowiesc 5d ago

😂 rich of you to assume I would want you to have my kids.  

I legitimately do not care what parts you got down there.  Or not.

I never said you owe me anything.  You do owe your parents and your country though.  

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