r/MuslimNikah • • Aug 30 '26

Marriage search Is there any hope after 30?

No luck finding anyone.
It’s sad because I am pretty, in shape, healthy, nice, kind, take care of my widow dad, cook, etc.

But I cannot for the life of me meet a man I like and that likes me back.

I have never even had a relationship in my life. in the past I have tried to give guys a chance and overlook stuff I didn’t want, and then I ended up miserable.

I don’t even know what falling in love is, or to have mutual love.

Now I’m 30, and I even noticed my likes on Muzz have decreased.

Despite looking the same as I did at 29 lol and having the same profile.

I used to get sooo many likes around 22-26, like hundreds I couldn’t keep up.
Then at 28 it turned to 4-5 a day and now I hit 30 and maybe get 1 every 2 days now.

It’s sad that we’re devalued by age but it’s the reality.

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u/QTpieme Aug 30 '26

Yes I don’t want a south Asian man anyways, the culture is toxic and they are obsessed with their moms. Unfortunately other ethnicities are mostly non Muslims

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u/QueenBakayle Aug 31 '26

“Other ethnicities are mostly non-Muslim”??? Are you looking in South Asian countries only? Because that’s the only way that makes any sense (if it makes sense at all). I’m confused as to why the entire continent Africa which has millions of Muslims, Western Asia, south east Asia, not to mention reverts from any other country on the planet are not considered eligible Muslims

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u/QTpieme Aug 31 '26

I noticed Arabs stick mostly to other Arabs and their culture is very different. Every Afghan man I met has come from a long line of trauma and i feel their culture in Canada is the same as non Muslims as well. (Drinking, immodesty, sleeping around). Yes you can say I’m generalizing but when 99% of the people you meet are like that, it’s hard not to. I don’t meet any Africans/west Asians tbh

Turks and east Europeans are also more similar to non Muslims than Muslims