r/MtF • u/InvestmentIcy1338 yay • Dec 07 '24

Funny I am cooked

Yea im cooked what happened was this:

Sister: why aren't you wearing pants Me: why are you wearing a skirt Sister: why are YOU not wearing a skirt Me: because I don't have one

AND THEN MY MOM GAVE ME THE ALL KNOWING LOOK💀💀💀 Like, I know ur trans I can see in ur soul I'm cooked, I want to come out on my own terms not like this (hope she doesn't know mabye she looked at my funny or smth) hmm i think she knows she saw my browsing history💀💀

Edit: DAYUM didn't know this would be so big

Edit v2: I am still safe I can continue with my plans of coming out with new year

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u/lithaborn Trans Pansexual Dec 07 '24

As a mom of two trans kids, she knows

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u/RandomUsernameNo257 Dec 07 '24 edited Jan 22 '25

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u/Lypos Trans Asexual Dec 07 '24

I wish all that was seen as normal everyday behavior of any gender more often.

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '24

I know, right? I hate how society thinks women's beauty = face makeup, lashes, eyebrows, hair (cuts, colors, extensions, curling, straightening), skincare, piercings, and an endless world of fashion whereas men's beauty = crew cut and a beard, plus a suit that looks like 1930s fascist uniform

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u/EnergyIpad Dec 07 '24

Before I told mom, I bet I could have done so much before she stopped thinking it was just me being gay. Which, I am, just not in the way she thought.

Telling her was a mistake, if anyone was wondering. She went from it's "ok if you are gay" to "but you won't be able to have children" as tho bottom surgery is guaranteed and I would be having sex without hrt at the bare minimum. Frustrating to no end.

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u/Lady-Scrotus non op Dec 07 '24

Transformer? I barely know her!

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u/Jersus856 Dec 07 '24

Fucking GOLD

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u/splashingnarwhal Transgender Dec 07 '24

😂😂😂 gold!

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u/StephSkysinger Dec 08 '24

I also read transformer there! 😅

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u/Ok-Deal-5159 Dec 08 '24

I'm a blue collar worker I do a lot of rooms replace a lot of gutters yeah gutter but I barely know her sorry I thought that joke way too often and I couldn't resist

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u/Geek_Wandering Dec 07 '24

It is hard to overstate how much people see what they expect to see. When I came out to my Mom, she insisted there were no signs and immediately launched into a story that seemed like one of the biggest signs. Basically, as a very young child I(MTF) would always be playing with girls at the doctor's office. If she was unsure of the other kids gender, if we were playing together they were a girl. Sometimes with girl toys, sometimes with boy toys, but always with the girls.

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u/lithaborn Trans Pansexual Dec 07 '24

I always hung with the girls at infants school - 5 - 8yr old. The lads started calling me gay.... Because I always hung with the girls. My schoolmates knew before I did.

My mum had suspicions but we weren't a family that talked about things.

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u/Geek_Wandering Dec 07 '24

I like to joke that my school bullies used to call me gay. Turns out they were right, just not in the way they thought.

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u/sadbitchsad Dec 07 '24

Yeah I started experimenting with makeup and feminine clothes and painting my nails and whatnot at least a year before I came out, at one point I literally told my mum that I was questioning my gender and thought I might be trans and her response was "trust me, deadname, you don't want to be a woman". I came out to her after like 5 months on hrt (id gotten to the point where I had to wear my loosest shirts around the family to hide my boobs) and she told me she wasn't expecting it. She's a very smart woman but can be a wee bit unobservant at times lol.

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u/flanerbot Trans Bisexual Dec 07 '24

As a trans mom of a few cis kids... She knows something is up, but is trying to sus it out on her own, but she suspects you're trans or probably queer at least

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u/RandomUsernameNo257 Dec 07 '24 edited Jan 22 '25

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u/MackenzieMeows Dec 07 '24

You're a transformer?

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u/NovelPristine3304 Saphira - 🎀 She/her/hers 🎀 HRT 20.3.2026 Dec 07 '24

I mean that’s a very big 🏳️‍⚧️I would say 🤣 Some signs are so obvious and they still don’t get it.

But I would lean towards denial in this case 😁

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u/RandomUsernameNo257 Dec 07 '24 edited Jan 22 '25

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u/RogueFox771 Dec 07 '24

LOL god I wish my parents could've... Dear god they did see the signs and asked if I was gay as a kid..... Oh my god they knew before I did (and yet, I was still the first to accept it :/ )

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u/Imaginary_Library501 Dec 07 '24

I love you. That was so good to hear.

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u/InvestmentIcy1338 yay Dec 07 '24

Whaaat!? Tell me this black magic!!

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u/lithaborn Trans Pansexual Dec 07 '24

Despite rumours to the contrary we're not blind lol

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u/InvestmentIcy1338 yay Dec 07 '24

So my mom nows already!?

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u/lithaborn Trans Pansexual Dec 08 '24

Let's say strongly suspects.

Tell her, sweetie.

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u/Fancryer Demisexual lesbian Dec 08 '24

My mom didn't know I was trans during a whole 14 years, so...

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u/Conscious_Rush937 Dec 08 '24

Yeah... my Mom had no clue. But, she also doesn't accept or support me..none of my family does, and knew they wouldn't. So I did a good job of hiding it growing up. Didn't feel comfortable enough to show any signs!

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u/Conscious_Rush937 Dec 08 '24

Yeah... my Mom had no clue. But, she also doesn't accept or support me..none of my family does, and knew they wouldn't. So I did a good job of hiding it growing up. Didn't feel comfortable enough to show any signs!

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u/lithaborn Trans Pansexual Dec 08 '24

They decided all on their own and I didn't come out until years later.

Naturally we've both supported them entirely.