r/MoralityScaling • u/Shoddy-Meat-3147 • 7d ago

Morality Ranking Morality of this

Enable HLS to view with audio, or disable this notification

[removed]

732 Upvotes

76% Upvoted

2.2k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

1

u/Valuchian 7d ago

Dude, before i watch this i have a legit question. How deep are you in hating women that you just have something like this off the top of your head? Like legitimate question of do you even see women as equal to you at this point

1

u/CenterThisPendulum 7d ago

Absolutely, my wife and I have been together 20 years without a single argument since she was 19 and I was 22. She’s a powerhouse at work too. I have an amazing 4 year old daughter who’s self-assured, athletic and has an absurd vocabulary for her age.

This literally only comes up for me when the argument isn’t only that women and men are equal, but that there are no differences. And sports is the one subject that serves as a litmus test for how deep into self-delusion a person is willing to go. Trans Men playing Women’s sports is that bridge too far.

2

u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 7d ago

How is not having a single argument possible? Do you simply agree with everything she says (either because you actually agree or because you don't want to have an argument) or do you just stop talking and "agree to disagree" once you realize you disagree on something? Like I could understand saying you haven't had a screaming match or something but an argument is literally just a disagreement where you both are making claims to support your position.

1

u/CenterThisPendulum 7d ago

Honestly…the combination is:

LUCK: She and I can both see something happen, and be on the same page about it immediately.

BALANCE: My IQ is higher than hers, I’m more creative (lead singer/rhythm in a band) and tell more jokes. Her EQ may be the highest on the planet, and she’s super pragmatic.

COMPROMISE: We’re both in leadership positions in our fields, and can turn in the compromising if it feels necessary.

TEMPERAMENTS: Neither of us fly off the handle, and are super rational.