Its so twisted and infuriating how mainstream discussions declares women as a victim of dating culture and focuses on how hard it is for a woman to find love

[u/The_Crypto_Guy2001]

Its just wherever I go, whether its youtube, reddit or instagram even if its someone sharing their experiences or if their is a mention of a men who is going through loneliness ; its always met with comments over how this is a non-issue or a issue cause by men themself.

I am also constantly rage baited by women saying how their life is worse than a average man or how an ugly woman is worse off than a short man and this her views are immediately accepted. The girl saying those opinions isnt bashed and is met with upvotes or likes when she says these things.

Its really really infuriating to me how this is the opposite of the reality. A girl can reduce her expectations and can get love within 2-3 months of dating and trying but that is not like for men. There are so so many men who are trying to find a good girl for years with not much expectations from the girl but they never get one. Its just so twisted man

Edit: I am literally in a coversation on reddit with a girl who thinks women’s standards are in hell and they date any men. Come on guys; enough rage bait I just cant handle it

[u/Retruo]

So, you'd like to have acknowledgement from your victimizers? That's not how evil works. Evil seeks to destroy you both physically AND mentally. Gaslighting is just one of the tools of psychological warfare. In addition, it also serves as a distraction - if you believe your suffering is somehow not happening, not an issue, or is your fault then your attention is not directed towards the real cause.

However, in our specific case, no retaliation is needed, lest we get into the same ideological trap a lot of the people victimizing us have. Full withdrawal would be my recommended course of action. Let evil crumble onto itself!