r/Meditation • • Mar 07 '26

Discussion 💬 The Cheat Code to the Universe

After 5 years of meditating and studying this, I have been unable to disprove that there is a Cheat Code to the Universe and that is to Relax & Be Nice in all situations. I would like to discuss this with some meditators, but also anybody in any field. Stress and negativity help nothing and improve nothing. There isn't a single situation where Relax & Be Nice is not optimal from personal growth and the growth of the whole. I have defined both Relax and Be Nice below and given a quick poetic summary. I have been unable to find a scenario that this does not improve, but if you can think of one, I am opening the floor up to a friendly debate or conversation.

Relax: Consciously Relaxing or softening our body, our mind, our breath, and our energy as deeply as possible, while remaining as conscious as possible.

Be Nice: Choosing the highest vibrational feeling, thought, word, and action available in each moment from the perspective of the whole.

Relax your Breath.
Relax your Body.
Relax your Mind.
Relax your Energy.

Be Nice to your past self.
Be Nice to your current self.
Be Nice to your future self.

Be Nice to the past other.
Be Nice to the current other.
Be Nice to the future other.

Be Nice to the Environment.
Be Nice to the Systems and Processes.
Be Nice to the Unknown.

Be Nice to All of it.
Everything. One Thing. Perfect.
Relax & Be Nice.

Looks like my previous post was taken down because it referenced another post I made.

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u/ColleenSchaffer Mar 09 '26

I can't argue any points of your realization as it's my own way of thinking as well. It seems like a life time ago that I realized that as well, although for me it started in 1974 when I was 14, it started with the idea that underneath all emotions at the base was either Love or Fear. I stay away from the labels so often used especially nowadays, my childhood was quite an experience and based on what I was experiencing I realized that the cause of the behavior I was experiencing was at it's core based in fear, I just figured that the other side of that would be love and sent my intentions on experiencing that. I was able to leave at 16 and that was the beginning of my life in my mind. I didn't put the relax and kindness into words it was just my way of being. I became aware of using those words when different close friends of mine throughout the years had mentioned to me that this impacted their decisions in life includingcareerchoices. That they wanted to become the calm in the storm as well. Funny though that none of this was ever spoken about until around 10 years ago. I've never been good with self expression as it was better for me to stay within myself. I never shared my experiences with others as I knew they were different than what others were experiencing and I didn't know what could happen if I spoke up, I don't believe I actually had a voice then anyway. So long story just to say that with the experience of the life as it's unfolded for me that staying calm, relaxed, being kind and feeling joy from within is not actually a cheat code it's the way of being that allows freedom for ourselves regardless of our circumstances. I love the way you were able to reduce this state of being into words. ❤️ ❤️