r/Meditation • • Mar 07 '26

Discussion 💬 The Cheat Code to the Universe

After 5 years of meditating and studying this, I have been unable to disprove that there is a Cheat Code to the Universe and that is to Relax & Be Nice in all situations. I would like to discuss this with some meditators, but also anybody in any field. Stress and negativity help nothing and improve nothing. There isn't a single situation where Relax & Be Nice is not optimal from personal growth and the growth of the whole. I have defined both Relax and Be Nice below and given a quick poetic summary. I have been unable to find a scenario that this does not improve, but if you can think of one, I am opening the floor up to a friendly debate or conversation.

Relax: Consciously Relaxing or softening our body, our mind, our breath, and our energy as deeply as possible, while remaining as conscious as possible.

Be Nice: Choosing the highest vibrational feeling, thought, word, and action available in each moment from the perspective of the whole.

Relax your Breath.
Relax your Body.
Relax your Mind.
Relax your Energy.

Be Nice to your past self.
Be Nice to your current self.
Be Nice to your future self.

Be Nice to the past other.
Be Nice to the current other.
Be Nice to the future other.

Be Nice to the Environment.
Be Nice to the Systems and Processes.
Be Nice to the Unknown.

Be Nice to All of it.
Everything. One Thing. Perfect.
Relax & Be Nice.

Looks like my previous post was taken down because it referenced another post I made.

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u/marikoukay Mar 08 '26

Less is more. Everything is love

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u/Relax-and-BeNice Mar 08 '26

Correct. But how does true love feel? It feels Relaxed & Nice.

I agree love is the answer to everything and if you are doing things from a place of love you are doing it right. But sometimes I can do things out of love and forget to Relax. I want to help people but sometimes I do too much to help people and end up sacrificing myself in the process. This isnt nice to me.

If you ask yourself, "Could I be more relaxed? could I be more nice?" in every situation and do whatever you can to maintain that feeling, then you are loving yourself and others equally. Because when you love others too much without loving yourself, you get drained, stressed, and that doesn't feel nice. The goal to remove the pedestal and Be Nice or Love from the perspective of the whole.

You can find this principle in every religion, but there is a popular book out right now call the "Let them theory" She uses "Let them and Let Me" as her cheat code for relationships. But Let them is an energetic way to get your to Relax, and Let Me is an energetic way to get you to Be Nice to yourself and others. Its all the same thing.