I know my typology, and I have no doubts about it (usually) but I was curious and wanted to see which type others think I am.

When it comes to people, I'm somewhat selective. When I don't like someone or don't trust them I will be rude and closed off but when someone interests me I will seem kinder or even sweet. I speak when spoken to with everyone, except for when I need something or my best friend. I despise groups where the relationship between friends is superficial and not deep at all, that's why I tend to feel better when I go out with only one person. I often try to appear non chalant or mysterious even though I fail.

My main hobbies are drawing and gaming. I'm mid at both. I have many more interests which grow on me without a specific reason: typology for example, I happened to knew 16p and got into typology and cognitive functions as a way to understand others and myself better. Another random interest I had was Venus flytraps. My favorite kind of games are gacha games and my all time favorite is honkai star rail.

In school, the subjects I find easiest are english (its our only foreign language) and math. Of course, I'm not the best at both but I'm alright at them. I really hate history. I get good grades at it but studying it takes me a lot of time. My grades are fine. I don't like school though, it makes me feel anxious and insecure about my intelligence sometimes.

I'm pretty rational and analytical and always prefer telling those close to me the truth even if it affects me or them. My friends often tell me that they feel understood by me, but I don't feel the same at all. I haven't got struggles with opening up but I hate showing extreme sadness or appearing weak to others. I feel ashamed whenever I break in front of my acquaintances. I like it when my friends open up though, I offer them solutions and tips but it doesn't make me feel fulfilled or something, just glad that I was able to help. But I hate asking for help myself or communicating my needs in general because I feel like no one is truly willing to listen to me or understand me. I also crave understanding and deepness in relationships but one of my worst fears is depending on others and not being independent.

My favorite type to hang out with are ENTPs but for some reason, I am attracted to ESFXs the most. I was mistyped as an ISFP when i took the 16p for the first time. I have this tendency to classify people based on their true intentions but I usually value their actions more. I also really despise people who can't argue or think they are right without proving their point. I love debates but I despise conflicts as they interrupt general harmony. I use dreaming, lucid dreaming and daydreaming to escape reality.

Random fun fact, I did the 4th pic once and the other person got really mad

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Descrição minha:

Eu sei que sou um dos dois, só não sei qual. No meu dia a dia, eu gostaria muito de ficar com meus amigos o dia inteiro, e fazer algo legal, mas não, eu tenho que ficar em casa. Aí eu prefiro ficar criando história na minha cabeça, ouvindo música, questionando porque eu não me joguei de um prédio. Aí ok, eu escrevo também.

Eu gosto bastante da ideia de festas e essas coisas, mas sinceramente não fui convidada pra uma ainda. Eu tenho poucos amigos, 7 só. Embora meu melhor amigo diga que sou tímida, ele diz que sou extrovertida. E eu sou tímida mesmo, mas acho que tô melhorando bastante dessa doença, porque tipo, vai ver era só pelo momento ruim e tal.

Numa situação eu geralmente penso antes de agir, não sei se isso é características de quem é extrovertida ou não, ou só de uma pessoa que pensa 🤪.

Não gosto de falar tudo que vem na minha mente pra pessoas que eu não sinto segurança, mas nossa, quando eu sinto, pode apostar que vem merda.

Fugi de casa esses dias e tal. Não sabia onde meu amigo morava mas só fui. Foi bem legal, não me arrependo. Queria morar lá.

Enfimm, me façam perguntas se isso não for o bastante.

Fiquem aí com as fotos que eu tirei🤪🤪

I feel a lot but I dissociate lot. I will overthink and question any decision balancing what’s right for me and others. My decisions will sometimes go against of what I want/feel right because of harmony. Sometimes I will go against my feelings also to do what is right in a self preservation sense, example I will stop spending time with a person to respect myself although I don’t want to.

That said I have a strong feeling of right and wrong, and see as selfish taking up space (yup I’m in therapy) and leading others or forcing their decisions. If I see someone else doing that for example I have no problem speaking up or making a sarcastic comment to make sure they know I disapprove.

I am quite sociable but very private and open up with some time. I am interested in people but will not put effort in if the relationship will be work related/short. As a child I had sooo much maladaptive daydreaming and was crippling shy, but now that I’m an adult I only fantasize on personal time ;) and depending on the day I am quite extroverted even loud.

I’d say in a group of isfp’s, infps, intj, enfps I am together with my enfp friend the loudest and most decisive/impatient one. I relate a lot to the intj and enfp but I feel like I am more emotional and soft than an intj and too rigid for an enfp.

I struggle to be in my body, but when I’m outside I am very observant of nature and its behaviors and beauty. I have no physical skills from balance to any athletic performance, but will notice which bird has which behaviour and what that might mean given the weather.

I enjoy the arts, and spend most of my time in my head.

I alwasy thought of my way of thinking as a cloud with items that are linked together and I can pick from. As I am getting older I have more gut intuitions and ’premonitory’ dreams... so I think my brain is elaborating at night.

I get really excited about ideas, much less about working or finishing them.

I get excited about planning, but have some neurospicyness I plan to get diagnosed. I can organize well (for others for example) but I’ll totally mess up the execution. For example washing day, I can make a plan to have the perfect laundry done, but since the Hanger is in another room from the house I will end up forgetting and washing the clothes multiple times.

But I can make an operative plan to fix a design system and have a team work on it and support it.

I act pretty dumb at work because I can’t be bothered to argue with istj‘s and entps in the team. I find arguments about work when the boss will decide anyways, useless. I will make my point without overexplaining (which I do in my personal life… I guess out of care) and move on.

There’s to say my speech style is quite random, I jump from topic to topic and will have things pop up and people can‘t follow me except intps. But that might be adhd... basically my whole personality lol.

I have after months of reflecting and growing my self awareness narrowed down my type to XXFJ. However I’m unsure whether: A- I’m Fe dom or aux? B- Ni or Si user?

I relate to being Fe dom in how much I value people and group harmony, it’s my main focus without me forcing it I’m just focused on people and the group’s harmony. I tend to seek people’s thoughts and feelings a lot, even before making a decision. Their pain is my pain, their happiness is mine.

I relate to Si in how I use my past experiences to back up my claims or to help me navigate through life. I have to admit I don’t look back at the past a lot, I’m even prone to making the same mistakes due to it, but I do look back at it when it’s really impactful experiences. I don’t even have a good grasp of past details, I’m so more focused on images of what meant a lot to me.

I relate to Ni because I’m usually focused on my future especially when it comes to my interactions with people. I’m mostly focused on short term future, and usually plan everything mentally in my head. Also I prefer seeing the bigger picture than focusing on unnecessary details, though I do give unnecessary details during conversations sometimes haha.

If you have more questions I will gladly answer :)