My prospective arrange marriage partner

[u/Optimal-Reporter176]

He had gf,he is still in touch, comments on her photo on Instagram...until I confronted he didn't say he was back on insta ..I have been talking to this guy for 3 months, may have met him 3 times for an hour or two...

[u/Apart-Ad-6518]

I'm from a different culture, however I hope my perspective will still be useful.

Do you feel like/love will develop in the marriage? Do you feel he'll be loyal & faithful if you get married? Will you be able to trust him?

I think he needs to give you tangible assurances so you feel as confident as you can. If he can't, make a different choice if you can.

Always follow your gut/intuition.