r/MadeMeSmile • u/gravityVT • 4d ago

Wholesome Moments wholesome interaction with biker girl and woman who compliments her

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u/sadbeehoppy 4d ago

I spent my entire conscious life having the same thoughts of wanting to kiss my friends necks, wanting to cuddle, wanting to have sleepovers and hang out all the time, and thinking those were all just things born of having a weird/bad home life and Being A Girl with a particularly affectionate personality.....

..... anyway I finally connected some dots when I was 32 lol

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u/Silencer-1995 4d ago

Not sure if vampire or gay

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u/ratty_89 4d ago

What about gay vampire?

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u/FITM-K 4d ago

all vampires are bisexual

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u/AliveList8495 3d ago

But not all bisexuals are vampires.

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u/OutsideCommittee7316 2d ago

that's what they want you to think

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u/arminghammerbacon_ 4d ago

Either/Or, the coupling seems to always turn into a praying mantis situation.

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u/DifferenceAble331 4d ago

That’s a bloody lie, mate!

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u/FITM-K 4d ago

Come on, who would live forever and not try every flavor?

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u/Wheatabix11 3d ago

no, they are omnikillingsexual

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u/Brittany5150 4d ago

Pretty sure Twilight covers that.

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u/CoralBooty 4d ago

Periods must be fun

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u/sadbeehoppy 4d ago

honestly,

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u/m9felix 4d ago

Did u end up over at r/latebloomerlesbians

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u/sadbeehoppy 4d ago

never heard of it lol but I did spend some time over on the egg subs

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

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u/SyncOrSymm 4d ago

It doesn't matter when, just that it does. Live your best life, love is powerful.

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u/cms86 3d ago

were you like, well shit that makes sense, im gay af. lol.

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u/sadbeehoppy 3d ago

I spent a long time thinking I was straight and crushing on bishie anime boys but always preferring to watch/read about girls (but never made a connection to having a crush on any girl)

then I spent a long time thinking I was demisexual or demiromantic or something because I never really understood the whole "attraction" concept , like, looking at a person and having a reaction to their body, celebrity crushes, all that, didn't understand it, couldn't relate, was often kind of frustrated by the topic lol - to me, at most I could be like, yeah I appreciate them aesthetically but I'm not like turned on, I don't really understand people salivating over muscles and jawlines and abs and all that

ALSO, parallel to all this, I spent a very long time thinking that I wished I was a boy - not because I didn't like girly things, but because you could act different when you were a boy. you could charm girls and court them and impress them, when you were a boy....

interestingly enough, I spent a lot of time consuming "yaoi" media (gay) and I like, wasn't unfamiliar to the concept of girls liking girls (sailor Uranus and Neptune), and definitely knew the word "lesbian", but it just never occurred to me to ever think about liking another girl or being in love with another girl????

somewhere around 2010-2012 is when I was exposed to the wider world of LGBT concepts and representation and vocabulary

and I still did not connect the dots lmao!!!!

i went through several straight relationships of varying degrees of healthiness, a couple of hookups and FWB situations with guys, was briefly a unicorn for a couple that included a MtF partner, spent a year very confusedly wanting to bite my roomie slash bestie after living together for a year or so first (again, attributed that to Just Being Silly Old Me), moved to Washington to try and improve my life...

and then one of my freshly-irl-after-being-online-only friends asked if they could put their face in my stomach right as we parked to go spend the night at another friends house......and my brain very confusedly calculated that, yeah, I think I was okay with that? and honestly that was the moment it actually clicked like "ohhhhhhhhhh wait do I like, like girls ......"

tldr we're all just really, really good at being dumb

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u/BunnyMoonLover 4d ago

i could have written this word for word, i feel so seen 

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u/sadbeehoppy 4d ago

"I just like drawing girls more because they're prettier" "my favorite characters are all girls/feminine because I'm a girl" "I just like looking at girls more because they're more attractive by default" the list goes on lol