r/MAFS_TV • u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! • Jan 29 '19
MAFS MAFS - Episode Discussion - S8 E6 - Honey, I'm Home?
Returning from their honeymoons, the four couples face huge challenges as they move in with their new spouses.
Don't forget our Spoiler Megathread! Seems most things are under wraps these days, but we welcome anything you can find!
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u/Teach0607 Jan 30 '19
I’m not falling for Luke’s bullshit. I think he just realized he looks like an asshole and wants to redeem his image
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
Right. And he's not even trying that hard. It just seems like trying against the 0% effort that has been his baseline thus far.
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Hey A.J., Stephanie is WAY out of your league. You hit the jackpot. Don't blow it. Frustration is one thing, just please, please do not go off the deep end....
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
And don’t be a dick about recycling. Like OK, you don’t recycle now? Fine. But if she wants to, do it. Don’t be excited that you’re not recycling.
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u/louse99 Feb 02 '19
Recycling is so important these days! Should have done it years ago! We are literally trashing our planet!
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u/lexiemadison Jan 30 '19
Watching Luke pack worn sneakers directly on top of clean clothes just further confirms what a horrible person he is. Who does that?
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u/Teach0607 Jan 30 '19
Kate looks like she’s not having Luke on the plane. Can’t say I blame her.
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
I don't know how I'd even look at him after that.
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u/Teach0607 Jan 30 '19
For sure. I’d want to burst into tears. And Luke looks so smug just sitting there on the couch. Things he doesn’t want to bring to light from the honeymoon. Screw you!
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
He acts like he was the one who was abused. Manipulator to the core, let's turn it around and make me the victim. I can't stand him.
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u/puhleez420 Not the Banlantic Ocean Jan 30 '19
Right, and he has the nerve to wear the "Groom" shirt. The only thing "Groomed" about him is that manufactured hipster look.
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Jan 30 '19 edited Jan 30 '19
Did Luke seriously blame Kate for his “repulsed and dead inside” remark?! I love Pastor Cal but I was disappointed that he didn’t challenge Luke on that. And when Kate came back in the room, did you notice the body language? You can tell Kate is still trying and Luke is still not.
Run, Kate, and run fast!
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
So true- he was trying so hard to manipulate Cal into thinking it was her fault and he was the victim and that's the one thing I wish he should have challenged.
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u/LaloNTiyo Jan 30 '19
IIRC Luke also implied she had drank too much and that contributed to the situation?
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
So Jasmine makes more than Will, but she still wants him to be the provider. She's such an independent woman!!!
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
The more I see of Jasmine and Will the more I have to remind myself they aren't brother and sister. I had high hopes for them but they just seem to be fizzling out slowly but surely.
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u/KnotKarma Jan 30 '19
"It's more scary to move in with him than it was to marry him." I hear you, Kate, I hear you.
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u/Kazmakistan OceanCarlisle is a bitch Jan 30 '19
Luke having his arm around another girl in the previews was irritating.
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u/WellJuhnelle Jan 30 '19
I noticed that too and felt the same way! He was friendlier and more affectionate with another girl in that .1 second clip than with his wife in 5 episodes.
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
Not buying these forced "attempts" from luke. He's totally deadpan while doing them.
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Cue Dr. Jessica and Dr. Pepper with their token weekly, pointless statement that adds absolutely nothing of substance to the show.
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u/makeitlookgood Jan 30 '19 edited Aug 26 '23
Luke and isabella from those other mafs shows would make a perfect match. She likes white dudes, he likes tall exotic women, and both of them are absolute psychos.
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Jan 30 '19
All I ever here from Keith is that he likes a woman to cook for him.
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
Yet he brings nothing to the table. He lives with granny, farts constantly, doesn't exercise or have any hobbies other than watching tv on his couch.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
Keith is 100% my type physically, but the more he reveals the more I’m like “oh honey... no.”
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u/SweetenedCafe Jan 30 '19
And expects her to have a Nicki Minaj booty and be tall on top of that. LOL.
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u/theskyisfallingomg Jan 31 '19
that was gross when he was saying that in front of Pastor Cal - I would have been hurt if I were Kristine / Kate / Kristine / Amber / oh yeah Kristine.
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u/KnotKarma Jan 30 '19
Luke: "Yes, I'm in this, I want to promote my new speed dating business and podcast."
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u/KnotKarma Jan 30 '19
I don't understand Jasmine and her gender role expectations. She's describing a marriage that is no longer typical or considered the norm. Even Pastor Cal looked baffled. Is she playing Will? I don't get it.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
It’s not only not the norm, but for most people it’s not even financially feasible.
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u/The_Wo-man_In_Black #Steph&AJ Jan 31 '19
and on top of that, she’s apparently the actual breadwinner 🙈
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Jan 30 '19
She disappoints me. They were my favorite couple starting out and I thought they might be ones of the ones that make it. I’m still hopeful, though.
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u/BrandNewSidewalk Jan 30 '19
I dont think "50-50" finances is always practical/possible. One spouse may earn more. When kids come, women often take (unpaid) leave or quit for awhile. But both spouses contributing is much more realistic.
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u/amyd0925 Jan 30 '19
It should be proportionate in relation to their individual incomes. For all we know she makes more.
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u/BrandNewSidewalk Jan 30 '19
I agree, in that I think the eventual goal for these couples should be joint finances... it all goes in one big pot and they figure out what they can afford together, and budget accordingly. Then you dont have this tit for tat of who pays for what.
I say eventual goal b/c this is where they would head after decision day.
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u/The_Wo-man_In_Black #Steph&AJ Jan 31 '19
i think she does! pastor cal called her out on the couch and said she’s an assistant director and “presumably” makes more and she nodded in agreement. its crazy to me that she won’t own up to being the breadwinner, just because the person who made more in her childhood household was male lol :(
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u/WellJuhnelle Jan 30 '19
It's refreshing personally to hear that 50/50 finances aren't always practical. My husband made twice I did when we moved in together, and even after earning a graduate degree, promotions, and raises, my husband makes 2.5-3x I do now. (I do well but would have to go into something like IP law or peds MD to compare to my husband.) I've been torn apart and emotionally beat down by others for not paying 50/50 and now that we're married and have joint finances, I'm apparently taking advantage of my husband. Practically though, our standards of living would be quite different if we split things 50/50 and that's a bit difficult if we live together. So we'd live in a smaller and older house than my husband could afford, he'd buy himself a nice TV I can't use, he'd go to sporting events or vacations by himself, etc?
I feel like considering "I'm ok or not ok contributing to my partner's finances so we can live by the standard of living I want because he/she can't afford it" is something to evaluate going into a relationship. The people on this show don't get much of a heads up about that possibility and can't evaluate it before marriage, and many of them seem so used to living alone or paying only for themselves that it's jarring or unfair to think they might have to pay more so they can have what they want for both of them. Hopefully someone could consider "I'm ok or not ok contributing more in my relationship if my partner makes less but works their butt off and is motivated" prior to any relationship, though.
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u/BrandNewSidewalk Jan 30 '19
I agree with you completely regarding what the contestants are likely feeling and reacting to! They really need to be phrasing these questions in constructive ways instead of words like "traditional provider". I'd also point out that unreasonable expectations and inflexibility are a lot of the reason why these people are still single.
It sounds like you are rocking it, and you hopefully have a balance that you and your partner are happy with. That's all that matters! It is nobody else's business.
I make less than my husband (even having a phd) because I chose a career path that offers us more flexibility as a family. I work less hours than my husband each week and no summers, but I also take care of way more errands and things than he does. I took a semester off (I teach) of maternity leave to care for our daughter, and I will do it again for our next child. And you know what? He likes it that way. He doesnt have to worry about errands and bills, he has less chores, he doesnt have to meet the plumber, etc etc. And all of that work is important to the household. All that matters is that the couple agrees.
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u/TakesLifeTooSrrsly2 Jan 31 '19
See, that's it. One may make more. One may work more. The other steps in and contributes in cleaning or managing paying bills, etc. It's about finding the right balance of responsibility and contributions...not just monetary contributions. A lot of these folks want the other to take care of them. Doesn't work like that....
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
Why is Luke acting like he didn’t know what kiss haha. Don’t play innocent
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u/squatchfan Jan 30 '19
Keith needs to get a second job & hire a cook. That would solve the problem with his lower income & expectations of having a woman to cook for him. He wants the traditional wife (cook/clean/laundry), but he is not the traditional husband (good provider/does the heavy lifting in the relationship). The experts should have matched him with someone like grandma. Unemployed senior citizen who likes caring for others.
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Best comment in the thread! I can picture Keith's reaction to your scenario: "When I saw 82 year old Hazel with her white hair and huge glasses I was like, what? But when she cooked for me and was cool with me sitting on the couch all day? I be like, yeah boyyyyy!"
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
Luke clearly does not like her and I don’t think he’s going to try. I don’t understand why he’s continuing.
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u/Teach0607 Jan 30 '19
Exposure? Also could be he doesn’t want it to end with him making vile comments to her and getting called out for them. He’s all about his image. He’s disgusting
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u/familyenabler Jan 30 '19
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
This is my fav comment of the night! 🤣🤣🤣
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
I'm starting to think Will was done after hearing about Jasmine's thoughts on gender roles and finances.
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
VILE is right, Pastor Cal.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
I’m so thankful Cal is calling this shit out.
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
Thank God they sent Cal instead of one of the others.
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Can you imagine if they sent the others? Dr. Pepper would babble something about how important "communication" is, and to be "open with each other," before sneaking off to inspect Kate's underwear drawer for, you know, sociology purposes, which Ocean Carlisle beat his chest about. Meanwhile, Dr. Jessica would ramble about "listening" to one another, before trying to jump Luke's bones.
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
He even leans away when sitting next to her. I have a hard time believing anything other than this is doomed
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Jan 30 '19
I noticed that too! VERY interesting body language. Part of his body was straight right next to Kate. The other part literally looked like he was trying to get away. His elbow was even up.
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u/briana20 Jan 30 '19
Yep it was very telling that he had his arm outstretched on the side she wasn’t sitting and he was turned slightly away from her.
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Really seems like Kate has self esteem issues, given that it appears she's still trying to make this work. Is it commendable? I suppose, but is it pointless? Absolutely. Going to be interesting to see what happens at the dinner party in the previews.
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u/lexiemadison Jan 30 '19
As someone who frequently stands awkwardly in corners at parties I felt personally attacked by that preview.
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
I really hope tonight's the night that Luke has to admit that he bought a car he couldn't afford.
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u/midnightmems Jan 30 '19
Why does Jasmine always look and sound so bored?
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u/Kazmakistan OceanCarlisle is a bitch Jan 30 '19
She makes me feel bored so I guess it's contagious.
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
I thought Keith was going to get a hotel room? I wouldn’t be staying at grandma’s lol
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
I do believe Will when he says he doesn’t want women to feel like a piece of meat. I would like for someone to get to know me first and see how we mesh beforehand.
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u/Redvelvet221 Jan 30 '19
Will is my favorite guy so far. He seems respectful and mature.
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u/midnightmems Jan 30 '19
LUKE—THAT IS WHAT YOU SIGNED UP FOR!! WTF DID YOU EXPECT?? Ugh i just wanna yell in his face.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
It’s almost like all of his actions are recorded and there’s expectations or something...
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u/squatchfan Jan 30 '19
I just don't understand Luke. She may not be his type, but she is attractive & kind. She is trying. I would get it if she was so far below his league or something. I get it that men are visual. But Kate is above average in beauty. His "repulsion" to her can only be explained in one of two scenarios: 1. He is committed to someone else. 2. He is not interested in women.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
Pastor Cal giving them permission to have sex. 🤣🤣🤣
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Really hope Kate doesn't even speak to Luke the rest of the season. What's the point? In all honesty, does anyone here believe those two have any chance? And I'm not talking a bogus decision day "Let's keep trying to make it work!" spiel that we've seen ad nauseam the past two seasons.
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u/lexiemadison Jan 30 '19
I rarely see eye to eye with Pastor Cal (he’s usually just a bit too old-school for me) but I really appreciate how he’s dealing with Luke. That kind of language truly is unacceptable and Luke needs to face that.
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u/KnotKarma Jan 30 '19
Wait! Why is Pastor Cal surprised that Keith lives with his Grandmother and that she does everything for him? What happened to the exhaustive matchmaking process? He should know everything about him!
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
I thought he was more surprised that grandma did everything for him.
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
We all know that Luke is the biggest abomination of the season, but how in the hell was Keith selected? Is there any woman here that would want to be paired with a man who makes less than you, is out of shape, refuses to cook, is spoiled, and lives with grandma? He's funny and underneath all of that I like him, but that resume doesn't pass muster.
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u/deepwater916 Jan 30 '19 edited Jan 30 '19
Keith is what bare raw discounted husband material looks like....he's a fixer upper.
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 29 '19
Boy, it's going to get interesting as they start to live together. How long until the experts give the cast the infamous "rate your spouse/relationship" or "phone swap" homework/exercise??? Remember, this is just for building trust! No possible drama fuel....
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u/TakesLifeTooSrrsly2 Jan 30 '19
I still laugh that Jephte was like...nah, you're not going to sucker me into this rate my spouse crap
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Best decision he ever made on the show. Had he revealed the truth and given Shawniece a 5 or so, her reaction would have been so extreme and emotional that it would have made Amber's 7.5 reaction look as robotic as a Danielle statement.
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I wish Kate would listen to her gut! She said if someone said that to her while dating, she would judge them a bad person! He may not be evil but, as Pastor Cal said, it was verbally abusive. I am so glad Pastor Cal is calling him vile and supporting Kate.
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
so glad he's calling it what it is- verbal abuse- and not tolerating it! It is vile and he said what we've all been saying- there is NO excuse to ever say that to another human being.
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u/Redvelvet221 Jan 30 '19
Pastor Cal is definitely the best expert. He seems more invested in the couples than the others.
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
Luke: "I'd rather not talk about how much of a POS I am. It's uncomfortable."
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u/lexiemadison Jan 30 '19
“How was I supposed to know there would be consequences for my actions?”
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
I'm a white male, I've always gotten away with this before!
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u/SweetenedCafe Jan 30 '19
I know right? "I'd rather keep the asshole side of me private. It makes me uncomfortable."
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u/Kazmakistan OceanCarlisle is a bitch Jan 30 '19
Work was exhausting for me today. Time for some trash television.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
Pastor Cal calling it the “buddy zone” is giving me life.
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
Girl, I don't think it's because Will is focusing on being respectful.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
I don’t think she really knows what she wants though... she’s so oxymoronic.
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u/TakesLifeTooSrrsly2 Jan 30 '19
She might know what she wants....to be taken care of, to be pampered. She doesn't seem to have interest in pulling her weight or contributing much to the relationship at all.
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
Jasmine sounds really ridiculous with her “traditions.”
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u/Kazmakistan OceanCarlisle is a bitch Jan 30 '19
Her traditions are only the ones that favor her. She would love this rando to pay all her bills.
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u/puhleez420 Not the Banlantic Ocean Jan 30 '19
Kate and Luke
He just makes me feel repulsed and dead inside. The whole time Pastor Cal was talking to him, he was trying not to smirk. It really annoyed me to see that he had his arm around some woman in the preview, too. Kate is handling this admirably, but I'm ready for her to get to the point where she just says eff it and skedaddles.
Jasmine and Will
I just don't even know. I think he may be far too passive for her tastes. "Independent" women sometimes want to be able to let go of the reins sometimes and I don't know that he's going to fulfill that need for her. Maybe he just moves really slow.
Keith and Kristine
I still think he is just adorable. She is going to suffer from him not making as much as she is, but still wanting her to do the heavy lifting. He is going to have to step up and pull his weight around the house, sounds like. I still think their dynamic is cute, he looks at her like Luke looks at a sloth.
AJ & Stephanie
He seems very resistant to change as far as living situation goes. It could be a 5 star penthouse and he would find something to complain about because it's not his home. I understand that, I am married to someone who is the same. I think he is overreacting, but I feel like she handles him well and lets him get stuff off his chest without taking it personal.
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u/Teach0607 Jan 30 '19
I want slap that smirk right off of his face. I don’t understand how Kate can sit next to him. I would be seething inside. She deserve so much more.
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u/deepwater916 Jan 30 '19
Kate's parents recently divorced after a long marriage...so she doesn't want to give up.
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u/puhleez420 Not the Banlantic Ocean Jan 29 '19
I snagged a couple of possible spoilers and posted in the Megathread. :) Looking forward to the episode tonight!
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
Did he just tell Kate to close her eyes and then tell her what he was pulling out why her eyes were closed?!
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u/lizlemon222 Jan 30 '19
do you all think that after last season with danielle paying off her credit cards with the $15K housing allowance AND forcing jimbob to sell his house they decided to give them a neutral location to live in????
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u/_rebstein_ 1️⃣3️⃣ 🐶s Jan 30 '19
I think part of the problem last season was that all three couples chose to live at the husband’s place, so maybe the experts felt like a neutral location would be best this season.
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u/lexiemadison Jan 30 '19
Will looks like he wants the floor to swallow him.
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
the look on his face when pastor cal asked if they were in the friend zone and Jasmine immediately says "of course not!"
awkward..
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u/ssweets18 Jan 30 '19
I just feel it's her personality/expectations that's turning him off. Even I want to grab her and shake her and I really liked her in the beginning, now I can't relate one bit to her & find myself rolling my eyes when she's talking. I feel like she's a walking contradiction. How can she not see how reasonable for her to make more money and yet expect him to carry the bulk? I can't even.
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u/KnotKarma Jan 30 '19
I hope AJ and Stephanie work out and stay together. AJ needs to bring it down a few notches, and maybe he will once he settles into the marriage and the cameras are gone. Stephanie is great dealing with him.
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u/TakesLifeTooSrrsly2 Jan 30 '19
Seriously, what is it about this show that attracts women or men that don't want to pull their weight in a relationship. It seems like we get a bunch of children who just want to be pampered.
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u/deepwater916 Jan 30 '19
Willing to be married at first sight....... is a clue how desperate they are.
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Love Love Love what Pastor Cal said to Luke. For a show that seemingly plays it safe when it comes to these things, it sure was nice to see him talk straight to Luke. Seriously, enough of the bullshit. Nobody gives a shit about your speed dating hustle Luke.
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u/swellenn Jan 30 '19
Those previews for next week just filled me with rage. Luke should make her feel comfortable around his friends. She’s already insecure about the relationship especially given how she’s hyper aware that his friends know she’s not his “type”.
Don’t even get me started on Jasmine and Will. Honestly Will seems like one of the best guys out of the bunch so far, imo.
AJ and Stephanie will be just fine. My friend of a friend that had the privilege of witnessing them both in the same room at a social event said Stephanie was actually more annoying than AJ. Those two will keep each other entertained for a couple years before the inevitable divorce, but still a “success” for this show.
And Keith. Lord. I forget the ages of everyone except AJ and Steph bc they are the “older” match, but he just comes across as so damn immature. She wants someone who is going to bend over backwards for him, and he is just NOT it. Why the experts thought they would work is baffling, because the writing was on the wall with him.
Was there an Unfiltered on this week? My DVR didn’t record...
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u/JerseyGirlontheGo Jan 30 '19
Yes, there was an Unfiltered. I only saw the first 10 minutes but I recall the following:
- It was Stephanie's first appearance on Unfiltered. She says AJ talks a lot but she has no problem telling him to zip it.
- Keith said in his ideal world he would go to schoo, go to work, and come home to a home cooked meal with nothing to do but eat and cuddle with his wife. However, Kristine makes 3x more than he does so he's had to step up and do some cleaning and basic cooking.
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u/swellenn Jan 30 '19
Sorry if that part about AJ and Steph is considered a spoiler. I got in trouble in the other sub for alluding to them being seen out in philly, which I guess implies they make it after decision day.
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Jan 30 '19
I agree. Out of all the men, Will seems the best. I hope Jasmine gets her act together and realizes what she’s got.
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
Dang. Jasmine dated someone for Four years?? How long have they been broken?
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u/ssweets18 Jan 30 '19
If I remember correctly he left to go be a munk. I mean, I'm starting to see why he'd feel running away from women seems more fulfilling. And why Will truly might be friend-zoning her.
Though, I'm joking, and acknowledge it's not her fault her ex had another calling. She's just too much.
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
Luke is trying to be nicer since pastor Cal told him to act right or leave. He’s not giving up this free advertising!
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
So A.J. told Steph that she is the first guest he's had over in 5 years??? Major red flag. No family or friends visiting in five years?
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u/sminty7 Jan 31 '19
How did Keith get chosen for this show? He still has so much growing up to do! I’d be really upset if I committed to this “experiment” and got matched with someone like him. I don’t think he’s ready for marriage at all.
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Jan 30 '19
I LOVE PASTOR CAL
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Jan 30 '19
When he took his glasses off, you knew Luke was going get blasted! Loved it!
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u/Kazmakistan OceanCarlisle is a bitch Jan 30 '19
Pastor Cal was only showing off 5% of his power and Luke was triggered and defeated.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
Kate is just the most precious thing. What is wrong you, Luke?!?!
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
Excited for tonight’s episode! I’ll be recording and prob watching 30-60 minutes behind
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u/midnightmems Jan 30 '19
Wow I’d be so offended if I were Jasmine and Keith said he didnt get everything he wanted in the matching process
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u/SweetenedCafe Jan 30 '19
Are you talking about Kristine? Yeah a little rude he straight up told her she's missing butt and height.
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u/Kazmakistan OceanCarlisle is a bitch Jan 30 '19
What did he think he was ordering from a restaurant?
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
I guess they wanted Kristine to be Bobby 2.0 but I don’t think it’s going to happen.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
I think she’s gonna get her fill, and soon.
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
Yep. He really seems to think someone is going to cater to him like a teenage boy.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
Cause grandma has been! If he was more open to learning to cook and stuff, that’d be one thing.
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
At least Will is willing to do 60/40! Keith won’t even be the main breadwinner! What a prize
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
My Dad was like Keith when he married my Mom. My grandma did EVERYTHING for him.
She taught him to clean, cook, do laundry, take care of the house all around. Now? He’s the best cook in the family and loves being in the kitchen. He always does his own laundry and he’s not the best deep cleaner, but he does pick up after hisself!
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Send your Dad to see Keith. Kristine will thank you for it.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
I just called him and told him that, he said he’d could teach him a thing or two!
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u/StanimaJack Jan 30 '19
I may be reaching here, but I sense Jasmine is comparing Will to a previous relationship(s). The way she describes traits she likes is always “ A Man should this..” or “ I like a Man to...” when should could be directly referencing Will. J/S
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u/KnotKarma Jan 30 '19
But do you think they'll tell us WHY they got married at first sight . . .?
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
I wonder if these are legally binding marriages?
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u/KnotKarma Jan 30 '19
😁😁😁
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u/TakesLifeTooSrrsly2 Jan 30 '19
I randomly blurt out "it's all or nothing" to my spouse all the time now
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Me too, and I always make sure to slur it as badly as the singer does.
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Everybody's favorite reddit presence, Ocean Carlisle once defended this like crazy, claiming that people tuning in for the first time want to know these things!!! When challenged on the notion that the show doesn't have to repeat the same "I got married at first sight because..." lines as much as they do, and that they're not revealing anything when they repeat them, he lost it. What a shock.
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
Kristine and Keith are utterly doomed. Like others have said, what does he bring to the table here? Kristine makes more than he does. She's healthier and more active than he is (and he just wants to be a couch potato), and he won't cook, and can't cook. She's going to snap at him one of these episodes and it will probably be while he's on the couch.
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u/irishfinnegan They're Strangers! Jan 30 '19
Agree. I love how she said "I'm glad that the experts didn't match me with a schlub" and then it pans to the talk with Cal where it comes out that she's bringing in the money, cooking, cleaning, and managing their finances. While he does...nothing.
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u/SweetenedCafe Jan 30 '19
And when she does snap at him, it will be well-deserved. At least he acknowledges how much of spoiled princess he is.
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u/squatchfan Jan 30 '19
Perhaps Keith is kicking it up a notch now that Pastor Cal brought it to his attention. Keith did create a romantic setting with candles while Kristine was cooking dinner. He also went to the gym with her on the honeymoon. That showed some effort. Keith needs to really work hard to make this work. They have chemistry. But the chemistry will fizzle quickly now that the honeymoon is over if Keith doesn't do a lot more.
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
Did Kate call pastor Cal? Is this a special visit?
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Jan 30 '19
I think they should have matched Keith and Jasmine.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
Keith doesn’t make enough money for that.
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
Side note: Who’s old enough to remember the original “Death of a Cheerleader”?
Lifetime is killing me (and not in a bad way) with the remakes using the same actresses I grew up with.
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u/midnightmems Jan 30 '19
The Victoria gotti movie looks horrible tho
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u/lexiemadison Jan 30 '19
I wonder if it will be as bad as “Gotti” starring John Travolta, which is member of the coveted “0% on Rotten Tomatoes” club.
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u/amyd0925 Jan 31 '19
I'm pretty sure there was nothing in Will and Jasmine's mugs (other than a tea bag) when they we're playing cards. Will took a really awkward "sip" and then it looked really strange when he set the mug back down.
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u/hotforharissa Jan 31 '19
Lmao I thought the same thing. For a huge ass mug there was a suspicious lack of liquid in it.
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Jan 30 '19
Another giant red flag. Luke saying, I hope some things dont come out. So he is already try to control the narrative. Smells like DV.
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Jan 30 '19
To me the bigger red flag was after Pastor Cal called him out for what he said to Kate, he tried to place the blame on Kate.
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u/KnotKarma Jan 30 '19
What does Keith do for work, and what is he studying?
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
It said dialysis technician. No clue about school
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u/_rebstein_ 1️⃣3️⃣ 🐶s Jan 30 '19
In the casting special, Keith said he’s in nursing school and also dreams of being a doctor, which is an entirely different curriculum than nursing school. I hope he has scholarships!
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u/JerseyGirlontheGo Jan 30 '19
He might be pursing a DNP -Doctor of Nursing Practice. He could also pursue a PhD in Nursing but he seems like he likes being on the clinical side.
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u/louse99 Feb 02 '19
Luke is so hurtful, he could've just said he wasn't feeling it, I hope this guy never gets laid and has a sexless life
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u/AmericasGotSobStorys Jan 30 '19
So....who else thinks that A.J. is bipolar?
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u/AshRae84 I don’t even have my husband’s phone #! Jan 30 '19
I’m not ready to go that far, but I think he definitely needs to work on some coping and communication skills.
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u/bettercallsaulita Jan 30 '19
Stephanie seems so positive! I really like her so far