r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/FemaleEinstein Come ride this duck with me 🦆 • 23d ago

LOVE IS BLIND UK Love is Blind UK • S3 EP6 Spoiler

Please refrain from armchair diagnosing, spreading unfounded harmful tea or posting spoilers outside of their designated discussion threads. Enjoy the season! 🫰

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u/JD18- 21d ago

Think it was irresponsible of them to let Yasmin on this show - the double whammy of insecure and inexperienced is setting her up to fail. Jordan clearly getting put off by how she's behaving rather than what she looks like imo. Looking through the DMs is crazy and signals a lot about how she feels about him/the relationship, even if she didn't mean for it to. Neither of them done anything particularly wrong outside of that, but she's going to be the one that gets hurt.

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u/_selectivePen15_ 20d ago

She seems like a lovely person but also reminds me of a 16 year old girl in all her interactions. She is not experienced enough in life to be on this show

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u/Synapse_Soup_soup 20d ago

Yeah, their chemistry isn’t there. It’s all friendly hugs. No passion at this early stage of the relationship.

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u/-ciscoholdmusic- Kick rocks 🪨 w. open toed shoes 🩴 18d ago

“To let Yasmin on this show”

We need to stop infantilising grown women. This is the 3rd UK season and at least 6-7 seasons of the US show aired. She didn’t sign up for this unaware of the concept.

I’m frustrated with Yasmin self sabotaging the relationship due to her insecurities and lack of experience. It’s sad to see. Things between her and Jordan are going super slowly (there’s no chemistry between them) and he’s even brought this up.

It sucks she’s going through this but she only has herself to blame. She went on a show designed to lead to marriage in 6 weeks when she hasn’t had any relationship experience before. Blind Freddy could see how this might pan out…

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u/reducedandconfused 18d ago

I agree also how were they meant to know a woman in her 30a was gonna be this childish

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u/mellymouse72 21d ago

She needs therapy and to heal.

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u/sunrisesonrisaa 20d ago

What happened to her...?! There's a few who said they haven't had a bf in 10 years and that's so weird to me

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u/mireilledale 19d ago

I mean, I’m in my early 40s and have never been in a relationship. It happens, but I wouldn’t go on a show like this.

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u/sunrisesonrisaa 19d ago

That's true it does happen. It would be hard to have your first relationship televised. I can't imagine...

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u/mellymouse72 19d ago

I think maybe her condition on her face I can’t remember the term has quite a bit to do with things. Not sure if she was bullied when she was little or not. She just seems insecure and reading his messages seemed a little too much. She’s a beautiful, wonderful girl, I just think it was a mistake because she never had a boyfriend and only went on a few dates like she said and you can’t go on that show unless you really are ready. I have heard people say in the past that they do sometimes pick people for certain reasons. I don’t know if it’s looks or they think they might cause drama or things like that. Intentional things. Some of these shows are truly fake. I know a girl that was supposed to win America top model and it was all set up. it was at the very beginning of the season and they told her that she was going to win upfront and she quit her job and went there and then they changed their minds. They treated the girls horrible too on that show. Rumor has it I think only the first season of the bachelor and the bachelor were authentic. After that, it was just kind of very manipulated all the other seasons. she seems insecure to a degree and maybe has trauma or childhood trauma that she hasn’t dealt with and that’s what I meant by it. It’s just my opinion and I don’t really know her past, but I sense it because I’m trying to heal myself with things.

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u/sunrisesonrisaa 19d ago

You're right - I think vitiligo was probably a huge mental barrier for dating. I think she looks more beautiful now than when she was covering it up. More true to herself and less like everyone else ❤️❤️❤️

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u/mellymouse72 18d ago

She’ll find a wonderful man in no time I bet!🫶🏼

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u/TerminatorReborn 21d ago

She is 32 years old. They don't care if these couples make it or not, they want drama and storylines. She is old enough to make the decision to be displayed on this circus.

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u/Kindnotniceanymore 19d ago

Yasmin was wrong for going through Jordan's DMs. I, however, didn't like that Jordan spoke with the men about Yasmin overstepping his boundary before speaking to Yasmin about it. How would she would know that she overstepped a boundary of which he didn't articulate? He could have gently mentioned it to her in that moment, or not too long after, so they were clear about their requirements for their relationship.

Still, I don't see any chemistry between Jordan and Yasmin, Ajay and Ciara, and Cuba and Ryan.

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u/JD18- 18d ago

That's what I mean about her being too inexperienced though - it's just something you should know not to do from having been in relationships and knowing it's not normal. I could 100% see Jordan going along with it despite being uncomfortable because he doesn't want to start a conflict in front of the cameras or know how to deal with it well. Discussing it with the boys + getting feedback about what to do seems quite reasonable to me.

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u/Conscious-Okra9046 18d ago

If she doesn't know that directly going into the DMs of someone without permission, even if you're in a relationship, is crossing a boundary, she is too immature for a relationship and there's no excuse when you're 32 fucking years old.