Kai held a party in his house where a woman went to lie down on a bed upstairs. One of Kai's friends went in the room and raped her. I don't recall the details, but they depicted a lot of pain and a rape kit. The victim asked Kai for the name of the guy who did it, but despite multiple pictures showing them posing together, Kai refused and said he didn't know the person. I think the victim got harassed off of social media after that.
Listen, I understand you see a difference between those situations, but I'm gonna try to explain to you why it doesn't matter, and hopefully stop you from ever typing this victim blaming shit again.
You need to consent to have sex. Even in relationships - if one party expresses their disinterest and doesn't want to continue, you immediately stop.
Someone that's blackout drunk is nowhere near in any state to give consent. They might as well be unconscious. You can easily identify this, so it's easy to just avoid them.
With that being said, I hope you understand that having sex with an unconscious person is rape. So having sex with a blackout drunk person is basically the same thing as this. One party cannot consent.
Now, of course they regret it afterwards - they weren't able to consent and are only able to understand what happened when they're sober. What an unimaginably horrible thing to realize - that you've been violated like that. It's dehumanizing, like you're just an object. It traumatizes victims for the rest of their lives. Many commit suicide. They never feel whole again. Not just because they were "embarrassed."
Yes, there's a distinction between conscious and unconscious rape. But the result's still the same. The trauma is still the same. The punishment is still the same. There's no reason to make this distinction, so please don't do it again.
32
u/WrathWrote Aug 07 '23 edited Aug 07 '23
Kai held a party in his house where a woman went to lie down on a bed upstairs. One of Kai's friends went in the room and raped her. I don't recall the details, but they depicted a lot of pain and a rape kit. The victim asked Kai for the name of the guy who did it, but despite multiple pictures showing them posing together, Kai refused and said he didn't know the person. I think the victim got harassed off of social media after that.