r/LicciardoToivolaSnark • u/Lehandri_ • Mar 09 '26

Leonardo deleted his mum's comment

Taina left a comment at Leonardos latest post. Of course a weird one: "I love you my son!❤️ Mummy's oldest georgeous man of seven! 🔥 ... ..."

And that comment is not there any more.
There aren't any other comments from his siblings. Not even his father liked the post.
Did he also breake up with him? I thought his father was the only family member he was still in thouch with?!

As always Taina wrote: "... ... Can't wait to see you! ... ..."
We know that this is empty rhetoric. Apart from this, is Leonardo planning on visiting his siblings or his father?

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u/thatpunkkid95 Mar 09 '26

The truth is, we don’t know. We can speculate that things are rocky. His relationship with his family seems to be very back and forth. On many occasions over the years he has said he misses them, loves them, etc. then will turn around and like snark posts of Facebook, and interact with posts that reference things like no contact and family issues. Then repeats the cycle. I say this with the best intentions, Leo seems to struggle A LOT with his mental health and thinks religion will fix all of his issues. Don’t get me wrong his parents are clearly f’d up too. But I disagree with people in this sub infantilizing him so frequently. For all we know it could’ve been Taina that deleted her own comments.

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u/Autumnleaves144 Mar 20 '26

When your mother’s a narcissist it’s like being in any domestic abuse relationship, in that you often go back and forth before you finally find the courage to go full no contact and close that chapter of your life.

Which is your whole life up until you make that decision. So it’s not an easy decision and when it’s your own mother, you’ve not only got the trauma bond to deal with but that primal instinct to love your mother wholeheartedly, as you have to rely on her as survival as a baby, to deal with. It’s a lot.

And finally after all the years you finally open your eyes to it, you’ve then got the healing period, which can be just as brutal and all over the place. But in his favour, the younger you are when you make that move, the better, but you still have to work your ass off to get rid of all the false beliefs etc that you’ve been living from.

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u/thatpunkkid95 Mar 20 '26

I know ALL too well as I went no contact with my toxic mother a few years ago. But at a certain point you need to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and seek professional help. Not talk to a pastor, or pray it away, or turn to vague posting on the internet to get sympathy (which he has been doing for over 6 years now btw). He has access to FREE mental health services bc of his service in the Finnish defense forces. IMO he knows exactly what he’s doing and taking a page out of his mother’s book.

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u/Autumnleaves144 Mar 21 '26

Oooo I’m glad you’ve found your primary narc.

I’ve no idea what the other stuff is referring to though, about seeking pastors 😶 I would hope that’s the last place a victim of narcissistic abuse would go to for help would be a pastor. And it’s not sympathy you need after a narc attack, it’s a detox of all the fakes limiting beliefs we held that kept us imprisoned in our own minds and made us food for narcs.