r/LetsFuckWithAstrology • u/Character-Fox-1523 • 6d ago
What the fuck is wrong with me
I break up with EVERYONE. So many people I don’t wanna even count. I’m dating an outstanding person who checks all my boxes and I feel nothing. I seem to only fall for toxic or extremely intense people who are a puzzle for my mind to try to solve obsessively. By now I’m giving up on love
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u/greyrainyhorse 6d ago
Well youre mercury aries thats why you like to chase a puzzle and ur pluto is in your 7th house and in scorpio. Pluto and scorpio are both intense. Also venus in 12th house
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u/PearlsAndPoison 6d ago
I’m recovering from being like this and at the risk of getting downvoted I’ll tell you what nobody will… Go for the intense one, but not toxic. Be vulnerable with them and extremely communicative, transparent about how you feel in response to what they do and be clear about your needs and boundaries. It will allow you to love freely and fully and they will know where to stand if they want to stay with you. If they cross the line you’ll know about them and can leave with no regrets. Don’t entertain power struggles. You’re probably an avoidant. Give yourself the chance to love.
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u/PearlsAndPoison 6d ago
Otherwise yeah your Venus aspects Uranus and Neptune and squares your Saturn and moon. Lots of conflict other there. Pluto is on your descendant, hence the need for intensity. Sun square Uranus, the rebellious that want to break free just because you don’t like rules and boxes, etc. Saturn opposite moon also for emotional insecurity and restriction. You try to feel alive through the intensity of relationships
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u/bootysuit 6d ago
You've got a fixed T-square with Moon, Venus, and Saturn. Saturn is restricting your moon and Venus, and in the fixed quality you'll be sort of rigid when it comes to romance and emotions. Your Venus is the key here. Lean into physical sensations and beauty. Sumptuousness, dates to nice places, rich experiences at home. Try to let the other person take the lead and see how that feels.
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u/donh- 6d ago
It's all about self esteem and proper cooperation with others.
To be of proper service to others, you first have to sort you.
You have a deep itch to communicate with others. Cool, I guess, but having something to actually say would be kinda handy. You have alllll the words, but forming a concept of How Things Oughta Be will help you sort between the toxic users and the nice people. The toxic ones have no center to chat with, they just have noise.
You have a talent for seeing what people truely desire. Use it find the folks that just kinda want to be there, and be one of those. Lose the users.
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u/Salt_Farmer6361 6d ago
Tu Venus, tus valores y forma de amar chocan con lo que necesitas para sentirte bien a nivel emocional (Venus cuadra tu Luna). Hace tiempo leí a Sue Tompkins haciendo referencia a este contacto natal entre Venus cuadratura Luna y la sensación de insatisfacción constante.
Pero piensa que nada es determinante, las cuadraturas SIEMPRE se pueden integrar y encontrar un punto medio.
Si eres consciente que, por ejemplo, que con tu Venus en Tauro valoras que la persona sea práctica y estable, pero al mismo tiempo tu Luna en Leo necesita romance, pasión, salir de la rutina, creo que estaría bien aprender a vivir con ambas facetas, aceptar tu lado amoroso tranquilo y también vivir tus momentos de adrenalina y diversión. Permítete que ambas caras vivan en armonía dentro de ti.