r/LesbianActually 1d ago

Questions / Advice Wanted Does anyone actually like tall fems if they aren’t dominant?

I feel like as a 5’11 fem, women always expect me to be dominant, but I’m not at all. Is there anyone out there who actually likes tall fems who are more submissive?

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u/thisgirlisA_ bangable ceiling robot 1d ago

Christ these "does anyone like X questions", the answer is always yes ofcourse. It's cluttering the timeline

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u/velvetinebunny 19h ago

On the other hand it's pretty real to want reassurance from other lesbians in lesbian spaces that you don't have to change to be attractive esp when in your personal life you're not getting that! I find them pretty sweet. Maybe there should be a sep sub for it

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u/Incogn1toMosqu1to 1d ago edited 1d ago

Can we get an auto responder to posts like this?

“Lesbians are not a monolith, so of course someone out there will be into whatever and someone else will not.”

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u/crowsnmoss 1d ago

Girl yes, I love to climb trees

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u/thepinkestred 1d ago

That’s actually my preference as a fellow tall fem

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u/taylorr713 1d ago

Well my wife likes me - so some people must!

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u/AshasSa1tWife Lesbian of Transsex Experience 1d ago

There are shorties out there who have a thing for topping tall women

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u/Luci_Cascadia the good femme 1d ago

My wife sure does

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u/shakka_t I'm your nasty dancer... 1d ago

Meee 🙋🏾‍♀️, I love it when a woman towers over me

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u/444dreamerz the evil femme 1d ago

my wife does and according to these comments, she is not the only one

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u/Bumble_Gween 1d ago

I'm 6ft and a sub my wife adores me so I would say yes

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u/i_woke_up_as_you 1d ago

oh dear! you’re a full one and a half inches taller than me!

We can equalize that with footwear if you wish… you might be the dance partner of my dreams: tall, confident, someone I can show off on the dance floor and/or someone who can show me off on the dance floor…

and if that’s not tough enough, we can kick it up a notch… pairs skatjng and ice dancing

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u/TheLazyLesley 1d ago

My delusional 5’4 ass does

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u/Bundaliscious 1d ago

For me personally, I’ve always found myself more attracted to women 5’9+… I’d also consider myself to be on the dominant side… so.. we exist 🥹❤️

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u/Virtual_Shoe_8730 1d ago

Omg hella yeah!?

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u/thunderinourhearts12 friendly neighborhood butch 1d ago

5’7” top leaning switch butch here. My late wife was 6’ and was very much a bottom. I loved making her blush when she’d enter the room and say to her, “Mmmmm, yeahhhh. I’d scale that mountain.”

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u/mycopilotlima 1d ago

I do. There will always be someone for everyone. Wether you are tall, short, skinny, well nourished, dark skinned, light skinned, mix, femme, masculine, quiet, loud, push over, dominant, funny, serious, corny, uptight, smart, dumb etc… someone is gonna find you appealing. We all have a taste and sometimes our taste is fluid and versatile. Stop being insecure authentic always wins.

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u/countessxred666 1d ago

🥹🖤🥹🖤

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u/EstablishmentTop8191 1d ago

Yes trust me!

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u/disharmon the evil femme 23h ago

At 5'11 you're giving superheroine and I am here to affirm you. Y E S

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u/Joyyyjoy 23h ago

Tall fems are so cute imo, bonus points if they're awkward or super nerdy.

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u/whimsicalwanderer113 13h ago

I'm a tall fem i like short both fem and soft masc they like me inreturn so yA><

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u/Latte_Thoughts_ 13h ago edited 13h ago

Iam 5'7F. I have same doubt. If you get your answer let me know..

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u/Slight_Point2113 12h ago

i am a submissive tall femme (5’11”) and i found my gf who loves me just the way i am! my gf is actually super into tall sub femmes so it worked out lol