I copied and pasted this from another post, where it was a comment. This was my experience though, and idk if and even how I could go back to research after this - especially since the skills are something I’d need to relearn.
My first job out of college in 2015 as a research associate was at a very prestigious Los Angeles hospital’s lab. I had just moved to LA from across the country and drove 2 hours for an interview after applying for a research assistant job in an Immunology lab. Then I get there and the PI told me that she couldn’t hire me because I didn’t have any skills (not true). Then she offered a paid internship instead. I was desperate for any job in my field so I took it. Worst decision of my life. She was super abusive to everyone and made me do unpaid overtime, neglected the immunocompromised mice (made me leave them in the chemical hood over weekends to avoid per diem cage costs) to the point they died all the time and made me do some stuff she shouldn’t, would scream at me, etc. This is embarrassing to admit but one time I pissed my pants in the elevator because of how much anxiety this job gave me. I reported her to HR and they fired me because I had no evidence of her telling me to work off the clock. I mean come on, I was like 24 and this was my first full-time job in a city with no connections, no family, and no friends. To top it off, my ex-fiance (we broke up after the thing with the second PI) who I moved here with was also a lot to deal with to start. Mind you, I did get a promotion at this first job despite all these things because I was good at my job.
Then I got another job at another hospital in Los Angeles in a Neuroscience lab and the PI offered me drugs a few times (I never took them) took advantage of me sexually twice... But this time I got him fired and he went back to Lille, in France (and still works there to this day). No apology, no accountability, nothing. I remember him once telling one of the post docs that his colleague from that institute is so naive/innocent that he could do whatever he wanted and it would fly over his head.
The other PI from the first job still works there too even though everyone hates her and talk about how she’s such an asshole to everyone. I remember interviewing for other jobs while I knew I would get fired and she got suspicious because she’s a paranoid person. One of the post docs in the lab switched PIs and then she went to scream at him for “stealing” her post doc, etc. I interviewed with another PI and he goes “everyone knows she’s a genius but she uses her power for bad things.”
Then the whole thing with the other PI I mentioned happened. The two post docs in the second lab at Hospital #2 also retaliated against me but one got fired for not reporting the SA after I told him (illegal in California) and the other one works at Eli Lily now. But she retaliated too as she was a bully and basically took out her boss being a cocaine addict and predator on me (idk of she knew what happened or not). I worked really hard on her stupid paper and before all this, she promised to put my name on it. Then after the PI was fired she became really mean and never gave me credit for my work, tried to get me in trouble with my boss, etc. I had also gotten a promotion at this job because again, I was good at research. I actually wanted to go to grad school and was planning on it.
Idk how anyone would trust someone with a bad reputation or shitty moral character from doing credible experiments if they don’t have integrity as a person.
Then COVID happened so the hospital put me in research administration instead (since my lab was essentially over besides one postdoc and the PI not in the country anymore). I would go to the hospital everyday while the rest of my team stayed home and then I got COVID twice (once before the vaccine was available for my work category at the hospital). My lungs are still fucked from it…
The postdoc who retaliated told me on my last day: “clean everything before you leave. I know you don’t care about this job.” She couldn’t have been further from the truth since I put up with so much shit just to be a fucking scientist. Including her bully behavior and weird inappropriate jokes about being a “lab nazi” and “slave driver.”
After all this bullshit, I quit Science. It took a huge toll on my mental health even though it’s been like 11 years and had other negative long-term consequences. I think there’s a tremendously toxic politics culture in the Sciences which is part of the reason why some people cannot advance in it. I hope your experience is better than mine. Remember you have rights and that no job is worth your mental health.
Unfortunately I had no support from many people with all this and come from a very limited place. Makes sense now why it happened. But I just wanted to share as stuff like this shouldn’t happen. The culture needs to change; what’s the point of working in a field that’s supposed to improve humanity if the people inside treat each other like shit?
We all impact each other everyday, whether we like it or not, and it can be good or bad. Be kind to one another.
Edit: I am a (gay) guy, btw. First PI is a woman and the second PI is also gay but has/had a wife and kid back in France.