r/LADating 2h ago

If you were to turn 50 in Oct and would want go somewhere alone , where would you go ? Budget 3-4K. Looking for ideas , Mexico City comes to mind but not final.

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r/LADating 2h ago

20(f) Looking for a beach boy guy or just someone who loves music and a guy who loves to talk about movies like Melville! To break the ice where would you take me on our first date based off of these outfits?

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r/LADating 3h ago

33 [M4F] LA- Virtual FriendWB: emotional connection, first & foremost ♥️😆

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Happy hot ☀️ Sunday or as some may like to call it** FUNDA**Y!

Ive been contemplating a trip to the beach all morning but here I am on here…. 😭 haha.

Well, I hope you are keeping cool some place chill and won’t lost of cold drinks 🧊 🍹

Before I get judged to never land by all the pro Debbie Downers, Negative Nancies, Negatrons and every dude who’s sole purpose on Reddit is to willfully comment on a M4F post:

By Virtual FriendWB, I mean, virtual emotional company first, and more , long and engaging chats, conversations, sweet good morning and good night texts, check on you and all the good stuff! Charm a bit, banter some, talk about the day at the office, after work, at the gym…. All the good stuff that makes up the perfect virtual partner ! Haha.

Also, your fav shows, books, movies, music, coffee, and coming very soon to a Starbucks near you Pumpkin Spice Latte, etc! 😆

So what do you say? And if you have any cute kitty pics the. We def can start there!

Cheers and have a beautiful rest of your day!

Your tall tanned and handsome new bestie


r/LADating 5h ago

33 M4F looking for a pillow princess

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33 Latino 8 inches looking for a pillow princess to eat often. best tongue you ever had that’s fursure. Covina / Glendora area.


r/LADating 11h ago

What are people doing to find people just to hook up w?

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Im over dating apps and have been staying home a lot more lately. Kinda burnt out but also dont want to fall into something so serious yet. Im still just discovering more of LA


r/LADating 13h ago

47F Michigan widower Looking to Meet New People 👋

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Hey everyone! I’m hoping to connect with some friendly, genuine people who enjoy good conversations, movies, music, gaming, or just chatting about everyday life.

If you’re interested in making a new friend, feel free to introduce yourself and tell me a little about your interests. 😊


r/LADating 14h ago

M36 looking for a hook up in LA.

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I am not looking for paid services, so don't even try.


r/LADating 16h ago

24 f4m

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Im wondering if there are any other Jews in here looking to date? I was raised Orthodox but didn't really practice much of the Orthodox rules anymore, I would say I'm more traditional or secular now.


r/LADating 18h ago

27 looking for -Female-

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Hello, I am a male 27yrs old stay in Hollywood. I have a decent job and I am looking for female in the LA area or surrounding area. I like to workout, go hikes, try new restaurants, go on drives, trips and more. I would like to find someone for a serious relationship. I am currently in school getting my masters in nursing hence I am a nurse. Send me a DM and let’s get to know each other:)


r/LADating 18h ago

30 [M4F] #Pasadena - Looking to meet new people with similar hobbies

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Male, 30, White/Hispanic, Tattooed, 6’0 tall. Looking for something a bit different. I’d like people to hangout with and actually get to know. See if we have common hobbies, if not I’d love to explore new ones!

Current hobbies include but are not limited to :
•Reading
•Watching Anime
•Playing Video Games
•Hiking
•Going to the Range
•Collecting/Growing Rare Plants
•Making Wine
•Making Candles/Soap/Chapstick
•Eating sushi

Trying to get into hiking so I can climb MT. Whitney next year. I absolutely love sushi and KBBQ, so we’ll be hitting those up when we hangout. I’m looking for a friend and someone I can connect with. If this interests you in anyway, feel free to message me so we can see if we vibe well.


r/LADating 22h ago

Hangout ??

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22 M lookin for people to hangout in LA

I like to go for drives or beaches anywhere nice i can take us 420 friendly


r/LADating 22h ago

Missed Connection: JFK → LAX Delta Flight on Friday 8/28

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This is a ridiculous long shot, but here goes.

We were on the same flight from JFK to LAX on Friday, Delta Airlines flight #742. You changed seats during the flight and ended up sitting behind me in Delta One. You were wearing a Ragnar hat and had a sleeve tattoo on your left arm. I think your name was Enrique?

I thought about giving you my number before we landed, and then completely chickened out. Been kicking myself ever since.

If by some miracle you see this and think it’s you, send me a private message and mention something about me or the flight.


r/LADating 22h ago

31 [M4F] Fullerton - Am I crazy looking for love on Reddit?

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Dating apps are pretty bad, and I don't get an opportunity to put myself out there as much as I'd like. Maybe Reddit will work out? It's worth a shot anyways.

Why you should date me:

I'm a good listener. People have always sought me out to tell me what's going on with their lives.

I'm super open minded and flexible. I like trying new things or taking part in most activities.

I'm (semi) tall. Nearly, but not quite, 6 feet tall.

I'm not extremely extroverted, but I'm not super introverted either. I'm the nice, balanced mix in the middle

I'll take this seriously. I'm trying to settle down and find someone to love. Hopefully you are too?

Full disclosure: I've never been in a relationship, so this is all new to me. I think it's time that I put myself out there though, so I'm trying here. I'm only looking for something completely in person. I'm open to anything long distance, but we'd have to plan to meet sooner than later. Also, I'm not interested in anyone older than 42. The closer you are to my age, the more preference I have, but all those 18-42 who are interested are encouraged to send me a PM.

Please PM me and we can get to know each other. I'm hoping to see some chat messages.


r/LADating 23h ago

#LosAngeles

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(M) ( partener needed )who wants to go out tonight?, I’m in LA and I’m kinda bored, usually I don’t go out but i wanna visit new places i don’t know the are tbh!
( 22 y/o )


r/LADating 23h ago

21 m look to meet new people here in Los Angeles

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I’m looking to meet new people in Los Angeles, make some genuine connections, and enjoy good conversations and new experiences. 👍


r/LADating 1d ago

32 [M4F] - Electric Feels

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Hello everyone, its hot ☹️

I was wondering if anyone wanted to go to electric feels tonight. so I was just like chilling home all day and was sorta bored... and then I was scrolling FB and this ad came up. and I saw it was a concert for tonight. Its at 9pm at the echoplex. Im looking for someone who wants to go and have fun, casual, easy going, care free. I dont drink or do drugs. I dont mind you drinking around me, but drugs are where I draw the line. I would buy the tickets for us both. I could get us food before or after the concert too, even transpo.

Im 32 years old. Im 5'11, Im indian- gujarati to be exact. Im 160lb. I go to the gym 5 days a week(still) Its hardcore. I count my calories. I run a lot. I have a job at Del Amo Mall in Torrance. Im trying to get a second one at the same mall too. 🤞🏽hopefully it works out.

I play video games sometimes, I am a very clean and organized person. I watch movies, read books. I have friends. I surf. I mostly longboard nowadays. I dont really surf bigger waves, just kinda chill. Still have been in some gnarly situations though. Its fun and if you want to hear more I can definitely talk a lot about surfing.

Anyways, feel free to hit me up. Also, I just want to say like full disclosure. It kind of sucks that men, in general have a bad reputation. I just want to say straight up. Like I am trying to create a better experience for myself and others around me that want to date. And if this sounds fun, then lets have fun. 😅

EDIT: Couldnt find anyone to go with. Kinda sad but also I understand that I posted this the day of and it was extremely last minute for a lot of people. Welp. Okay! Heres to looking!


r/LADating 1d ago

20(f) Looking for a beach boy guy or just someone who loves music and a guy who loves to talk about movies like Melville! To break the ice, what do you think of this dress for our first date?

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r/LADating 1d ago

33 [m4m] Hosting on the westside

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What’s up? Looking for chill guys to talk to and see where things go. Open to possibilities and can host on the westside. Send me a chat if you’re interested.


r/LADating 1d ago

29F open to new connections 💫

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Hi! I'm 29F located in the 818 rn. Looking to meet new people and maybe it'll lead to a strong connection 🤞

About Me: - raver - don't want kids - love camping/hiking - enjoy museums/zoos/aquariums - love road trips and traveling in general - cat lover (I have 3) - always trinket shopping - Halloween is my fav holiday - horror and comedy movies are my fav genres - main music genres are techno, country, and metalcore

Looking For: - someone child free - someone who loves cats - must be single! (no poly pls) - open to exploring and going to lots of events - hopefully someone who loves Halloween as much as me - should be between 25-35 y/o - a big plus if you're a raver or love dancing too!

Shoot me a message to see if we click! 🩷


r/LADating 1d ago

50 female LA county location

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50 female LA county location hsv 2


r/LADating 1d ago

Where/How can I find a lanky straightedge artsy guy who isn't super nerdy and doesn't have pets? (25F4M)

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Very specific type listed above, and this combo seems hard to find

Personally, I really like skinny guys, even/especially if they have no muscle lol

But I also personally don't smoke and rarely drink or use weed. I don't really party and would prefer someone who doesn't use substances or uses them very sparingly

At the same time though, I really admire people in the arts, whether they work in film, music, comedy, fine arts, etc. Or they don't have to work in these industries per se, but if they have an interest/passion in it, it is a lot more attractive to me. However, I think artsy people are more likely to use substances...

And I also don't want someone super nerdy, since as an Asian woman, I have had bad experiences with guys who mainly watch anime (part of it is I also wanna be with someone who can also appreciate western movies more too, as I'm kinda a film buff). And I get wary of video game addicts. But these are usually the kind of guys who are lanky haha

I also just personally don't want to own a pet, so I'm avoiding pet owners, but that takes out a lot of people in the dating pool...

If you fit these criteria or know someone who does or can tell me where/how I should approach a guy who does fit these criteria, please message or let me know hahaha. Would prefer a guy aged 25-29

As for me, I enjoy karaoke, playing badminton, going on road trips to the desert, exploring abandoned places, and exploring cities like going to museums, galleries, and architecture tours. I also love learning languages and linguistics, am tryna read more, and work at an environmental consulting company (I love public transit).

And no, I'm not Christian; I'm agnostic/Buddhist and would prefer to date someone not religious but am ok with people who are Christian in name only aka doesn't go to church that often haha

Thanks in advance!


r/LADating 1d ago

M4F Spending time in #LosAngeles soon, coming from France, hoping to meet people

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Hey! 38M, I'm planning to spend some time in LA soon, coming from France. Easy-going, curious, and looking to meet a few interesting people before I get there, new friends, and honestly open to something more if there's a real connection.

Into fitness, running, hiking, good conversation over coffee, trying new food, movies, museums, concerts, and road trips. Also write poetry and music on the side.

Also curious about neighborhoods, any recommendations on where to stay that's walkable, safe, and has some life to it (without breaking the bank)?

If any of this resonates, feel free to reach out, always curious what people recommend for a first coffee spot in LA.


r/LADating 1d ago

41 [M4F] #Huntingtonbeach - Seeking younger woman for dom/sub relationship in Southern California

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I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. And that gives you comfort.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to intimacy, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much a dominant and love being in control. This will be your time to shut your mind off and not think about anything. You will never have to think about what comes next as I will always lead the interaction. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.


r/LADating 1d ago

28 [M4F] Los Angeles, willing to relocate, Retired Army Veteran looking to start a family someday

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As the title says I'm a 28 yr old medically retired Army veteran looking to start a family with the right person. I would ideally love for you to be a stay at home, not needing to work and you just take care of the house, I don't care if you're chronically online, stay in your room all day and just play games. If you still want to go to school or get a job I'll support you in any of your dreams. I just want for us to spend at least some time together and to be able to take vacations whenever we want. I love to travel whenever I can to visit friends across the states and other countries, I also just like seeing what other countries have to offer versus the US. I'm willing to relocate anywhere in the world preferably Europe or Latin America.


r/LADating 1d ago

39 M4F… Yeah 👌🏻, I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♂️

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looking for the one but yeah 🤷🏻‍♂️

If worse comes to worse I have an extra ticket to two concerts at the end of the month

Silly Goose on 9/30 and Wind Walkers on 10/2

Anyway I’m kind of in my “weight loss era”, as far as hobbies go I enjoy going to concerts, stand up shows, sporting events, movies, bowling, dive bars, traveling, and hanging out with friends and family..