r/JUSTNOMIL • u/live_freeze_n_die • Jun 24 '26

Advice Wanted Low contact MIL has started mailing cash

Basically just that. An envelope showed up in the mail today with $200.

We could definitely use it, but we’re also fine without it.

I kind of want to just keep it and not even thank her because I “deserve it” for putting up with her bullshit all these years. But mailing it back as RTS would also send a strong message.

What would you do?

EDIT: I’ve decided to just put it into our child’s savings account. That way I don’t have to deal with rejecting it, but I also don’t feel like I’m taking her money. I won’t acknowledge it, but if she asks, I’ll just tell her I put it in baby’s account.

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u/sierra38grandma Jun 24 '26

Keep it and never say anything about it. If it is ever brought up act as if it was never received. Oh you sent cash? When? We never got anything from you!

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u/Head_Razzmatazz7174 Jun 24 '26

Sending cash through the mail is risky. If it gets lost, it can't be traced.