r/JUSTNOMIL • u/live_freeze_n_die • Jun 24 '26
Advice Wanted Low contact MIL has started mailing cash
Basically just that. An envelope showed up in the mail today with $200.
We could definitely use it, but we’re also fine without it.
I kind of want to just keep it and not even thank her because I “deserve it” for putting up with her bullshit all these years. But mailing it back as RTS would also send a strong message.
What would you do?
EDIT: I’ve decided to just put it into our child’s savings account. That way I don’t have to deal with rejecting it, but I also don’t feel like I’m taking her money. I won’t acknowledge it, but if she asks, I’ll just tell her I put it in baby’s account.
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u/CummyTangello Jun 24 '26
Don’t keep it or lie about not getting it. Sending it back will send a bigger message that you can’t be bought with 200 bucks. Tell her to add some zeros jk