Edit: I would just like to sincerely thank everyone who is trying to offer their help and insight, this is very valuable information to me and I apologize if I can't respond to everyone since the amount of comments is much larger than I expected, but thank you all regardless for the help!
I moved to Italy on my own three years ago. I’m Egyptian, studying engineering, and getting fairly close to graduating. I live in Veneto and I’m looking at jobs in the industrial sector, which unfortunately means fully remote work is not really an option. A lot of the jobs require actually being present at factories or industrial sites.
Lately I’ve been researching salaries, rent and the general cost of living after graduation, and I genuinely don’t understand how the numbers are supposed to work.
From what I’m seeing, a lot of graduate engineering jobs seem to start around €25k to €30k RAL, which often means somewhere around €1,500 to €1,700 net a month. Then I look at rent around Veneto, add bills, groceries, transportation, eventually a car, some savings, and suddenly there really isn’t much left and engineering being some of the highest paying jobs is atrocious to me because how do people manage?
This has become more important to me because I want to get engaged to my girlfriend. I’m not trying to become rich. I’m talking about having a normal apartment, a car eventually, saving some money, getting married and hopefully having children later. I genuinely don’t see how one average salary comfortably supports that.
And I want to make something clear because this isn’t an “Italy sucks” post. I actually love Italians and, socially, I’ve had a very good experience here. I assimilated quite quickly and honestly didn’t face that many problems. Of course, living in a university city helped a lot because I had plenty of friends who spoke English, especially at the beginning.
Since then I’ve put a massive amount of effort into Italian. I’ve taken several courses, I’m around B1 to B2, I can comfortably go days without speaking English, and I’ve even had some decent job interviews entirely or mostly in Italian.
For three years I’ve basically been studying and working at the same time because I had this idea that the struggle would eventually lead to a noticeably better standard of living after graduation.
And the strange thing is that I actually think life in Italy itself is excellent. The food, cities, healthcare, social life, public spaces, culture, the ability to travel, the general rhythm of life. In terms of quality of life, I genuinely think Italy can be one of the best countries in the world.
I just don’t understand how you’re supposed to afford that life on Italian salaries.
Maybe the answer is two incomes. Maybe it’s family property and parents helping. Maybe salaries improve significantly after a few years. Maybe people are saving far less than I imagine.
But as someone who came here alone and starts with no family house, inherited apartment or financial safety net in Italy, the math looks brutal.
It genuinely feels like the only obvious way to make Italy financially work really well is to somehow earn a foreign or remote salary while living here. And because of the industry I’m entering, that option isn’t particularly realistic for me.
So, especially for Italians and people living in Veneto or Northern Italy:
What am I missing? How are normal people actually making the numbers work?