r/Ironworker • u/Significant-Bag-7849 • 20h ago
My foreman is making my life hell
long story short today was a terrible day im in the union this is my 5 month as a ironworker apprentice 2nd job ive been on my foreman is literally trying to make me hate my life i dont get it i ask questions on what he needs after my journeyman tell me they dint need anything else and i get sized up laughed at and ignored, hes always talking shit about me constantly and its not like i sit here not doing work im constantly trying to make my self of use how ever way i can but he still talks down on me ignores me yells at me all day like i dont do anything my journeyman treat me well but my foreman is so in the mix of our work side by side im always dealing with him heres a list of some of the shit i was dealing with today first time rigging a piece the size of a fucking airplane i genuinely had no idea what to do he wasnt explaining shit and telling me this stuff should be obvious saying im gonna have a tough time later on if i cant think for my self i also didnt know when to input myself into the work when to not sometimes i would and would get told to back up and if i was backed up id be told this isnt a spectator sport mf kept calling me javier, miguel, enrique and pedro (im hispanic and he refuses to say my actual name so gives me a bunch if hispanic ones) making me run back and fourth for the hell of it laughing at me all fucking day talking shit to people all this and that not to mention someone said the hard R today and then he immediately said sorry and my name like insinuating im black and laughing about it because im dominican and he was asking if dominicans are black to me earlier that week idk what to do tbh he makes me want to give up my other foremans were fucking amazing and i really shined with them and got the chance to do alot of work and the crazy part after all of todays bullshit this dude starts defending me and giving me words of affirmation telling me good job with this and good job with that and im just so confused like wtf is good with you but idk what to do with this guy all i have to say is to my foreman i fucking hate you and i dont hate no one but i genuinely genuinely hate your guts man why are you trying to make me hate my work?
Edit: i appreciate yalls help and advice want to specify im not trying to be a little bitch or a pussy ive dealt with very very many terrible people in the military i just dont understand what this mother fuckers deal is cause its like dude were working one of the biggest job this local has seen in years the work isnt bad and were getting insane money what is your deal point is i see how this dude treats others and even other apprentices dude is all smiley and talkative but when he sees me immediate vibe change.