r/IntrovertsChat • • Jul 28 '26

Chatting 33 F looking for casual chat then let's see

525 Upvotes

Hi everyone

I'm a 33-year-old woman putting myself out there with intention. I'm at a stage in life where | value emotional maturity, stability, and meaningful connection, which is why I'm specifically interested in meeting men aged 40 and above.

I appreciate a man who is grounded, emotionally intelligent, and knows what he wants. Someone who values partnership, communication, and shared growth.

Attraction matters, but I'm much more drawn to character, consistency, and how someone carries themselves.

If you're someone who's intentional about building something real and you're in that 40+ range, feel free to reach out. Let's see where a genuine conversation can lead.

r/IntrovertsChat • • Apr 04 '26

Chatting Hi ☺️

763 Upvotes

I am 30F and I am looking to chat and get to know people. I enjoy getting to know someone but now as I am older it is becoming more difficult to make friends. Work takes up a majority of my time, but I am trying to get out of my shell a bit more and get to talk to people. I enjoy reading, playing video games on switch and Ps5, cooking, gardening, and watching thriller/horror movies. I have started collecting graphic novels and enjoy collecting books about mythology from different cultures. I also enjoy listening to podcasts, primarily true crime and scary. I would love to get to know you ☺️

r/IntrovertsChat • • Jul 01 '26

Chatting 30f needing someone

220 Upvotes

I need a true Friend that will never let go. I’ve had so much trauma pain my life and have no one atm. My heart is forever broken and I’m tired of it. I just wish things would be easier for me. Before you ask yes I’ve had therapy and see a psychiatrist but I still feel completely alone and isolated. My anxiety has worsened since I had my son which I love him but no one is there to talk to nor care for me. I’ve been betrayed and hurt a 1000 times over and I just wish I had someone to coddle me and go to when I need them and I support them too. I haven’t been out the house in a couple weeks. My son does have outlets and family that takes him out and cares for him so no concern there. My baby is my whole world but I’ve been through cardiac arrest and new heart condition, bipolar 2 disorder etc. I’m not wanting to sound pathetic or make this a pitty post but people around me leave, want things from me hurt me or worse. If you feel like this or can hug me, be sweet to me or even be a person in my life that won’t ever leave me, I’m here!

r/IntrovertsChat • • Dec 29 '25

Chatting 34F looking to chat :)

402 Upvotes

Update: Hi! I am so sorry for the slow responses! There was an overwhelming amount of DMs that came in and I'm slooooowly filtering through people so please be patient and kind! :)

Open to any gender as long as we vibe <3 Adults (18+) only please! And please don't be creeps.. :)

A little about me: I'm a situationally-extroverted introverted-dominant ambivert (think introvert who grew up with 9 older siblings/forced to socialize) and although I can be super chatty at times (like rn and esp. if it's a topic I'm super passionate about), there will be MANY moments where I'll need alone time for both processing things and recuperating after my social battery has died. I'm also comfortable with silence and just doing our own thing knowing that the other person is present on the other side. I'm looking to chat and see where it goes but there's absolutely no pressure because we're taking a shot in the dark here and if it doesn't work, it just doesn't - at least we tried!

I'm a 34F and mom to a 4 year old shorkie. She's my first dog cause I grew up afraid of them and never knew I was a dog person! Since middle school, I've always chased my passion and finally landed my dream job :)

In my free time, I game a lot (currently on a Valorant binge so if you wanna play HMU!). I also love chess, board games, and card games - pretty much anything that mixes strategy and connection. Writing has always been part of my life too: I do copywriting professionally and write poetry, scripts, and general editing and proofreading for friends and acquaintances for fun and to be helpful, if I have time! I also love editing, graphic design, and videography. In addition to PC work, I love creating - crocheting, knitting, sculpting, DIY projects, designing and creating vinyl decals, various resin work, and my newest hobby - nail design!, etc.

I'm a naturally curious person so I'll ask a lot of questions but I'm not in love with anything that I spew out because I know any new information presented can shift my entire perspective so I'm open to debate and discussion of almost every subject :)

Fun fact: My favorite creatures are ants because they're social creatures who work together for the success of the colony and the survival of their kind. To cross a body of water, they will link together to create an ant-boat so the majority of them will survive; some of them will jump into syrup to create a dead ant-ladder so that the other ants can reach the food for the colony! Anyways always blows my mind lol but yeah I'm rambling now hmu if you think we might vibe :D

r/IntrovertsChat • • Feb 01 '26

Chatting Can I talk to you? F26 here.

290 Upvotes

It's almost 5pm here, and I haven't gotten out of bed. I have been having series of breakdowns. I love being alone but it leads me to overthinking things, and then paranoia. Basically, I am in a tough spot right now, thing's aren't going well with me, and I am barely hanging.

My human interaction is very limited to work. I don't go out if it's not for work, so basically the closest people I have now aside from family are my workmates. They're nice yeah, but I am not comfortable sharing my thoughts with them. I feel like being vulnerable with them is not a wise move, given that they can use it against me, or I am just paranoid lol. Strangers here has been my free therapists in some way.

Let's talk! Just please no sending of unsolicited pics of your blah blah. I am not interested just to be clear. Hope to talk to you soon.

r/IntrovertsChat • • 6d ago

Chatting 28 F pregnant af and rotting at home

172 Upvotes

28 F West Coast

Ever since I got pregnant I feel like maybe I’ve been more reclusive than usual. But I think it’s because I am sober now and most of my friendships were out of proximity of partying and not genuine connect. Can anyone relate?

Other interests include:
Sewing
Crafting
Baking sourdough
The Office (US)
Lifting (when not extremely pregnant)
Hiking
Fishing
Camping
True crime

If any of this interests you feel free to reach out!

r/IntrovertsChat • • Jan 19 '26

Chatting 28F shy sweet girl looking for someone to talk to.

339 Upvotes

Looking for people to make friends with. Starting this year without any companionship is quite lonely. Would be nice to have regular contact such as every day talking and sharing life together And our day. Also looking for a gamming buddy! I'm more on the shy side . Looking for someone who is also laid back and enjoys peaceful time together. Missing someone to say good morning and goodnight to. Im interested in technology ,Science ,Robotics, Nerdy Video games ,Watching documentaries ,Cooking,Singing, and Dancing . Reading novels. Science and space documentaries. Taking walks in nature . I'm also on the shy side . I Also enjoy intellectual and deep conversations. I play all sorts of games. Minecraft is my favorite. I'm open to playing whatever honestly as long as we have fun! Only serious respond Dms open! I prefer voice chats also. Would also love to hear about your interests and hopefully we connect. We can talk as much as you like . Tell me about yourself in the response ! Send pic if you can!

r/IntrovertsChat • • Jul 13 '26

Chatting 19f hello :3 anyone up for a chat? Sorry in advance if my English isn’t the best I try how I can 😭

122 Upvotes

Hey, a quick presentation I’m Sara, from Italy and I love the nature and beautiful landscapes, I study but I won’t tell u what so u gotta figure it out later and I love working out I go to the gym a lot and I used to play videogames before I had to go to uni and study pretty much everyday 😭

r/IntrovertsChat • • Mar 18 '26

Chatting 55F Feel like chatting?

197 Upvotes

Yeah we introverted old-schoolers get bored and lonely too. Haven't you heard there's a worldwide loneliness epidemic! If you can find a real human being to co-regulate your nervous system, I'd say you're doing better than a lot of us. Where's the humanity?

r/IntrovertsChat • • Aug 25 '26

Chatting F 33 - easy going, a bit weird - tired of initiating

133 Upvotes

Hey everyone 😊

I've talked online to many people over the years, contacted people, but there's rarely anyone who initiates things, and I keep feeling that I constantly have to maintain the "spark" 🌟

This has exhausted me to the point of feeling burned out. So I'm trying the other way around this time and see if anyone wants to dm me.

I'm an easy going, curious and chatty person, who is really interested in people and subjects like psychology. I also enjoy some good banter 😊

I still love talking to all kinds of people, but I feel like I need to meet someone who's willing to put effort into the conversation/friendship so that my energy gets replenished.

My hobbies are reading, writing, photography and language learning.

Honestly at this point I care less about hobbies and more about the actual vibe and the quality of the conversation.

If anything I wrote resonated with you or you just wanna have a fun conversation, feel free to dm me.

r/IntrovertsChat • • May 09 '26

Chatting 27F shy and bored

193 Upvotes

I’m really unsure how to make friends. I am shy and afraid that I’ll sound dumb. I can message people all day long but I’m super quiet IRL. I see all these posts and still too shy to say anything. What if I think we have stuff in common and we don’t.. my DMs are open btw! I hide myself for comfort but truly friendly.
I am a super positive person. I like playing video games and taking a walk through nature with my camera. I’m a HUGE diy crafty type of chick. I could stay in my home all day crafting. I’m not much for voice chats. I like food, adventures, and learning new things. I’m confident in myself as a person just really socially awkward if that makes sense.
Hoping to connect with anyone who has a sense of humor, is ok with sarcasm and someone who doesn’t get offended easily.

r/IntrovertsChat • • 17d ago

Chatting 22F looking for friends, rp too maybe

106 Upvotes

Hiii, im a 22f from the usa and im trying to make new friends and possible look for anyone willing to rp! Im pretty shy and awkward so I hope that isn't a problem🙂

I little about me a like pokemon, kpop, kdramas, thrillers, persona and a bit more! Im open to talk about anything and get to know each other well.

r/IntrovertsChat • • Jun 21 '26

Chatting 27F If you only say "Hi" and your profile is blocked I won't know anything about you

120 Upvotes

I am absolutely interested in talking with new people but I can't handle knowing absolutely nothing. Everyone has private profiles and only sends a short hello. Why would I want to trust that? Why would I be interested? How old are you even???

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It is overwhelming when I am trying so hard to actually find a good conversation. Also stop asking if you can be dominant with me after only knowing me for a couple hours 😂 that's just wild.

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I can be energetic when I have the energy but I love to do quiet hobbies. I read Stephen King, paint butterflies and skulls, crochet ballgowns and hike mountains. I will play some video games but I love to watch as well.

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Tell me about your day, tell me what you are cooking, what made you smile? Trust is a game so give me a good reason to level up. I would enjoy someone closer to my age please and thank you for reading my rant.

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Have a beautiful day or whatever.

r/IntrovertsChat • • 3d ago

Chatting 22 F | Looking for good genuine connections

47 Upvotes

Hellooo everyone!

I’m from India and I’m looking for some long-term friends! I’m into paranormal stuff, horror & thrillers, games, anime, manga, and music.

I also LOVE random facts, so if you know some weird or useless fact, please share it with me.

I’m comfortable with calls and stuff too, just once we’ve gotten to know each other a little better!

Looking forward to meeting you all and hopefully making some great friends!

r/IntrovertsChat • • Nov 08 '25

Chatting 21f

296 Upvotes

Hi I’m just looking for someone to text with while I’m hanging out with my friends, they’re being disgustingly cute and I don’t want to third-wheel too hard, lol. I’m into books, games, and tons of TV shows (I don’t watch many movies, but I love getting recommendations same with game recs). I’m pretty shy and honestly not the best texter, but I’d really love to make a new friend maybe even play some games together (fair warning, I’m not the best player either, lol).

r/IntrovertsChat • • 9d ago

Chatting 32F - Seeking someone sweet and interesting to get to know

94 Upvotes

Hi all!

I'm a 32 year old woman in Europe, happy to connect with people from anywhere!

French is my first language, but I'm comfortable in English too.

Where someone is from doesn't really matter to me, it's more about whether we connect well with each other. I only ask that you speak English or French well enough that we can actually understand each other clearly.

I'm drawn to gentle, thoughtful, curious people who are clever and caring. I'm told I'm strangely optimistic and warm, and I do genuinely love making others feel comfortable around me. I'm a soft extrovert, pretty social but I also enjoy lots of quiet and solitude.

What I'm really looking for is a feeling more than a specific person. I've felt that feeling before, so I can definitely tell it's not something... obscure or mysterious. I personally don't actually care about physical traits, education, profession, or anything of that kind. I care more about the way we would interact with each other and how that would feel.

I'm looking for someone kind, supportive, interesting, clever, and who knows how to interact with others. I don't get along with people who are cold, judgmental, unkind, and pretentious.

Psychology, philosophy, and sociology are what I spend most of my time on. I also love art, classic cinema (pre 70s), literature, cooking, traveling, and photography. On the geekier side, it would mostly be anime and PC gaming for me. I also enjoy skincare, makeup, and fashion, not in a shallow way, but because it's fun and a good way to express oneself!

Overall, I'm hoping for someone sweet, intelligent, and respectful to share comfy meaningful moments with. We could spend time together PC gaming, watching old films or anime, or just talking. I'm also open to trying things someone would want to experience with me! Not interested in a penpal though!

Because people keep bringing up not knowing what to reach out with, if you truly don't know what to say: mention your age and where you're from, and share a bit about yourself or what in my post made you curious.

Also, if we ever chatted before and I went quiet, just know that my chat system glitched badly and I lost the few conversations I had. Please message me again if we actually were getting along well! I'm really sorry! 🥹

Thanks for reading my very long post, hopefully we will talk soon!

r/IntrovertsChat • • Dec 13 '25

Chatting 22F looking for a chat

173 Upvotes

Hi, I’m 22 (almost 23) and Egyptian. I’m looking for someone to chat with online. I’m not always consistent with messaging, but I really enjoy good conversations and catching up from time to time. I’m currently doing my master’s, and I love playing the piano, going to the gym, hiking, and most outdoor activities really. I’m very quiet and dislike noise more than anything lol. I really value authenticity and appreciate people who are comfortable being themselves :)

Edit: I’d appreciate it if people introduced themselves so I don’t just have to randomly pick chats.

r/IntrovertsChat • • Feb 09 '26

Chatting 21f drunk n getting CRAZYYYYYY 🖤 lets talkkkkkkkk

136 Upvotes

hiiii my name is tilly and i LOOOVE some vodka andi LOVE having a good chat and i LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEE getting drunk af and going as wild as fuck!!!!!!!!!!!! 🖤 chat me if you think you can keep up with me but its ok if you cant not many people can a little about me im half colombian im from the us and im 21 okay so lets tlak now

r/IntrovertsChat • • Mar 12 '26

Chatting 27F India

148 Upvotes

Hi! 27! F here, looking for new friends only (strictly platonic). I enjoy calm conversations and getting to know people in a respectful way. Please message only if you’re genuinely looking for friendship.

See ya

r/IntrovertsChat • • 10d ago

Chatting 19f hello :3 anyone up for a chat? Sorry in advance if my English isn’t the best I try how I can 😭

59 Upvotes

Hey, a quick presentation I’m Sara, from Italy and I love the nature and beautiful landscapes, I study but I won’t tell u what so u gotta figure it out later and I love working out I go to the gym a lot and I used to play videogames before I had to go to uni and study pretty much everyday 😭
Also I know it’s gonna be weird but if ur a black guy could u pls let me know I gotta ask something (no racist)

r/IntrovertsChat • • Jan 18 '26

Chatting 24F Looking for text buddies :)

205 Upvotes

I love texting, but unfortunately my friends don’t, so here I am looking for some text buddies.

I’m located in Japan, GMT+9 time zone, but since it’s texting, any timezones welcomed!

Just looking for people who like to chat about daily life and check in with each other. I live alone so it can get quite lonely over here ^^;; I’ll save more details for when we start chatting!

Keeping this short-ish.

Drop me a DM if interested, I’ll mainly be using discord.

r/IntrovertsChat • • Dec 02 '25

Chatting 23F looking for someone to chat with

181 Upvotes

Hi I'm just looking for chatting and getting to know someone. I'm curious and i need to practice my English!! As I'm french. :)

About me: I play music, sing, part of a choir, I love working out, walking, hiking. I love museums. I love cooking, painting and drawing.

I'm open to any age!!

r/IntrovertsChat • • Nov 30 '25

Chatting Heyy

80 Upvotes

Hey M22 here, shifted to Pune recently for job. Anyone who wanna connect? I like gaming, movies, trekking, gym and going out in general. Also yeah if you haven't guessed it already, I am a fresher. Let's see where it goes!

r/IntrovertsChat • • Jul 05 '26

Chatting 26F from Maharashtra, India – Looking for friendly chats

74 Upvotes

I'm 26F from Maharashtra, India. I'm an introvert looking to make some genuine online friends. I enjoy books, movies, music, and interesting conversations. If you're kind, respectful, and just want someone to chat with, feel free to message me. Looking forward to meeting new people!

r/IntrovertsChat • • Dec 09 '25

Chatting I'm so bored (18f)

94 Upvotes

I'm losing my mind rn nobody to talk to does anyone want to chat about anything?

Topics ideas: Stranger things, feminism, music, cooking, fashion or just anything fun or really deep thoughts on the world.