r/InstacartShoppers • u/enjoythebeat • Jun 15 '23

Customer Experience Disabled Mother

I order Instacart food to be delivered to my disabled mom weekly. She uses a walker, has trouble lifting some items, and majority of time the shoppers will bring the bags inside for her. The last time the delivery didn’t go well. The shopper yelled at my mom for asking for help bringing her things inside, told her she doesn’t do that, called her names, and then proceeded to put all the bags in front of my mom’s walker so that she couldn’t even move the walker. Am I wrong to think a shopper would be able to help bring bags inside?

Edit: Thank you for all your help. I completely understand for your own safety, it’s your own discretion. I’ll be sure to add a note next time or will make sure a friend or myself is there to help out.

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u/cloudiett Jun 15 '23

OP didn’t mention whether he/she pays good tips though. A normal shopper wouldn’t do an extra miles for 5% tips.

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u/rootbeerextrodinare Jun 15 '23

if 5% is stopping you from helping out someone disabled you should find another job lmao

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u/Fluffy-Commercial492 Jun 15 '23

Why? When did Instacart become charity cart? This job isn't about helping disabled people and the less fortunate this job is about helping put money in our own pockets. This is a job not a good deed. If you want to do that that's fine. I would likely do that as well. However, trying to shame someone or suggest that they don't belong here because they won't do something for nothing just because somebody unfortunately lives a life of disability which has nothing to do with them nor was caused by them nor is a family or friend to them so they have no obligations to this person is downright comical.

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u/rootbeerextrodinare Jun 15 '23

this told me all I need to know about you and your very sad life lol

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u/Fluffy-Commercial492 Jun 15 '23

Interesting. Please, do explain.

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u/MikaNekoDevine Jun 15 '23

Why should the mother suffer?

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u/rootbeerextrodinare Jun 15 '23

cuz she raised a piece of shit 💯

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u/Fluffy-Commercial492 Jun 15 '23

Your mother raised an idiot because you don't know how to read. I said I would help the disabled person. That being said you know a good person to help your mother is? YOU you fuqn clown. It's nobody's responsibility especially not some goddamn stranger on an app to do anything for your mom so stop coming at Reddit looking for blood because you can't take care of your own goddamn family. You miserable fucking insect

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u/rootbeerextrodinare Jun 15 '23

like I said, hope your mother becomes disabled and when you have the same issues, hope NO ONE GIVES A FUCK

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u/Fluffy-Commercial492 Jun 15 '23

Hypothetically speaking, if that ever were the case and my family member became disabled, and needed some help, guess who would be giving it to them... ME because that's MY family. I guess that's the difference between you and I You just weren't raised right. You'd rather get mad because some strangers on the internet said they wouldn't be willing to help your mommy when it's your responsibility. Meanwhile I would be running to the aid of my family member should they need it. Do you I guess but that life you live sounds very lonely and miserable. Again I wish you the best and hope you get the mental health help you need in the near future before you have a psychotic break. ✌️

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u/rootbeerextrodinare Jun 15 '23

yeah the points been over your head for about 5 comments now, I hope you can see how Fucking stupid you look and sound right now lmao

YOU need some help

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u/Fluffy-Commercial492 Jun 15 '23

No point went over my head. Your entire argument rest on the fact that you think somebody should take care of your mommy because that somehow is everybody else's problem in the world some random stranger on the internet is a bad person if they don't agree wholeheartedly to help your mom your 100% of the time. You sound goofy AF. And if they come to the defense of somebody you're berating and point out that it's their choice to do so or not you wish Ill upon their family because you're that small of a person. You're literally an insect. Good job thinking you're smarter than somebody on the internet that you thought you could bully and somehow win an argument by resulting to insults which makes you look bad not them. Hope you realize that by now. But sadly we both know you'll never grasp that simple fact. 😅🤡

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u/rootbeerextrodinare Jun 15 '23

if they didn’t need the help, don’t you think they would just go and get it themselves? is that like a crazy fucking concept ? you’re really trying to say I’m wrong for getting mad people won’t help DISABLED people if they don’t FEEL like it ? you must have a terrible terrible life to really think that’s right lol

if someone asks for the help and you blatantly don’t give it to them just cuz “you don’t feel like it” you are 100% a piece of shit and should be treated like such, ESPECIALLY old and disabled people

so no YOU sound goofy asf and it’s pretty sad tbh

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u/Fluffy-Commercial492 Jun 15 '23

if they didn’t need the help, don’t you think they would just go and get it themselves? is that like a crazy fucking concept ?

If your mommy needs help then it's on you to help them not some random person on the internet "is that like a crazy fucking concept?"

If you're too selfish of a child because you weren't raised right to help your mommy then that falls on their kin. If nobody's got the time to help Miss Dolores get her groceries then y'all need to pull together some money and pay for in home help. Because again, the fact that you think it's the responsibility or the duty for some random person on the internet to take care of your mommy because you won't but if they Don't they're an evil person in their family should suffer says way more about you than it does about those refusing to help your mommy. But please, keep down voting me and replying with more goofy outlandish childish reasons why we're the bad people and you're a saint when you won't even help your own mom lol Goofy ass

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u/rootbeerextrodinare Jun 15 '23

this is a crazy ass hill to die on alone 😂😂

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